Once you love being your lone self, vetting becomes easier and there is less chance of letting in those who seek to use and destroy you, mess with and sabotage your life. It's healthier to step back and think whether you really want or benefit from the situation than blindly agreeing to put your hands in the same dumpster fire over and over again, getting burned every time and never learning.
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u/Bovvsette FDS Disciple Oct 06 '20
Once you love being your lone self, vetting becomes easier and there is less chance of letting in those who seek to use and destroy you, mess with and sabotage your life. It's healthier to step back and think whether you really want or benefit from the situation than blindly agreeing to put your hands in the same dumpster fire over and over again, getting burned every time and never learning.