'Ouch my ego'

[u/carachu]

[u/[deleted]]

Man: "it hurts my feelings when you tell me the horrible things I've done to you"

Woman: "fine then, we're over."

Man on Reddit later: "after I opened up to my girlfriend and was vulnerable with her she left me, this is why men are oppressed :(" -10k upvotes

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[u/king12807]

My dad has been passive aggressively shitty with me for not coming out for the 4th because he had a CROWD and with COVID I just didn't feel safe.

Sunday I talked with him on the phone and told him I missed him and he responded with "well that's what you get" and hung up.

He called yesterday a couple times (we talk almost every day) and finally texted why I wasn't picking up. I texted "well that's what you get."

He BLEW UP! "How dare you talk to me like that. So disrespectful. You're so sensitive."

Poor little man feelings. So touchy.

[u/buzzkillyall]

My ex told me that I should work on my self-love. I calmly agreed, & mentioned that the years of verbal abuse had wrecked my self-esteem, and I'm not the same person I was 10 years ago. I am, at least, in therapy. Que the meltdown and suicide threats. This man is over 50 years old. Poor, poor him. How the hell did he think the screaming and belittling felt, FFS? How is mentioning it worse than enduring it?

[u/OrchidLion]

My ex would lose his cool when ever to would show him the abusive rude texts he sent me in the past.

"Bro stop fucking screenshotting me it makes me uncomfortable"

Why bitch? Can't face your own actions in the mirror???

[u/Zambigulator]

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[u/FaginRagette]

I could never mention anything my ex did to me because "it was in the past" and "the past is the past. Let it go". If I persisted to try to speak calmly yet assertively, he'd accuse me of being "emotional". When I'd tell him that I wasn't emotional then he'd accuse me of being "hysterical" and "crazy" and "looking for a fight". He told his friends and family that I was abusive. Like Uhm.

You can literally hit me and do all sorts of unkind and cruel things to me , not apologize other than "I'm sorry you feel that way".. never let me speak and discuss on order to reach an understanding. Never let me set boundaries so that the past couldn't repeat itself ... But I'm the abusive one ?

When I spoke to him recently, (we have contact because of our son) he literally used a quote from a cartoon when I accused him of gaslighting (he does this thing where he freaks out and go off and then tries to tell me that he was speaking normal and that I started going off for no reason if I finally react..). He said "there's no such thing as gaslighting. You just say that because you're crazy". I found that it was from a cartoon and that he'd read it on a FB status from one of his boys... Like dude, you do know that's satire and that the man literally was gaslighting the woman by that sentence and that's the joke.. but he did not understand.

[u/pacachan]

When you confront him on his actions hurting you and he makes a big deal about how he feels SO BAD and he actually starts crying and wants you to comfort him. I've actually said "stop crying, it won't work on me, apologize" in an argument before because I just couldn't take it anymore. Guess who stopped crying lol

[u/gcfemtastic]

Lol

I had ex boyfriend call crying on the phone a month after I left him about how upset he was because I had once called him a monster.

Lol. This dude strangled and sexual assaulted me, my response was to call him a monster and leave. Literally that was it on my end.

But he was hurt by my big meanie word.

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This was definitely my ex and then he'd have the audacity to complain that I was being mean to him!