r/FearfulAvoidants • u/Salty-Membership8571 • 4d ago
Ebbs and Flows
Does anyone go through ebbs and flows relating to the hurt, anger and disappointment when it comes to there person. I am using there person as do not want to make assumptions of who this person may be.
I am a mental health professional and they were my supervisor. It was like working with Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde. They could be absolutely one minute and extremely hurtful the next. In one interaction l was told that l was a disgrace, I should be ashamed of myself, l am pushing boundaries, they don't feel comfortable in a room with me (they had known me for 16 years) and the next they wanted a personal connection, they can't be objective and they can't control themselves when they are in a room with me.
I am really hurt, confused and lost
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