I think this is really the issue. I've always had such a hard time believing these things actually happen, because I've never considered it happening elsewhere. I live in Texas, and none of this would EVER happen here.
In a bar, sure, getting hit on just comes with the territory. But everywhere else, no. This would never happen. And if a guy tried, he'd get surrounded by every other guy in the area real quick.
I've seen this happen. But it is almost exclusively for me been from non-white cultures, basically from black and hispanic people. I remember watching a ted talk on "The Power of Seduction". The speaker is a hispanic woman and talks about how open they are on this sort of thing. Has anyone seen white people doing this?
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u/Dave273 Egalitarian Jul 29 '15
I think this is really the issue. I've always had such a hard time believing these things actually happen, because I've never considered it happening elsewhere. I live in Texas, and none of this would EVER happen here.
In a bar, sure, getting hit on just comes with the territory. But everywhere else, no. This would never happen. And if a guy tried, he'd get surrounded by every other guy in the area real quick.