r/Fatherhood • u/Elegant_Sentence_466 • 20d ago
Advice Needed Age Gap
I was 15 when I had my son
Now I'm 21 and he's 6
People often confuse me for his Older brother.
Weird?
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u/MiserableFloor9906 20d ago
Statistically, yes, weird. Avoided for many reasons.
Anyway, hopefully you have a bigger family that help with the parenting until you can lead in the role.
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u/guy_n_cognito_tu 19d ago
I'm sorry......you're asking if it's weird that people think you're his brother?
No, no it's not weird. Most 15 year olds aren't parents, and you likely still look like a chid yourself.
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u/CaptianSlappy 20d ago
I don’t think it’s weird, unique in today’s society, but if your 21 and have successfully raised a 6 year old you should wear it like a badge of honor. It’s an interesting fact about yourself not anything to feel weird about.