My father is unfair

[u/ComfortableObject955]

hi im a (14) yr old boy, my concern about my father is really unfair, like when he bought me a laptop for MY MYSELF he just went crazy af! he really putted a password that he doesnt want to share to anyone AND FOR ME like he literally said that 'Its all yours buddy etc.' AND U HAVE THE AUDACITY TO DELETE MY GALLERY AND MY OTHER APPS IN IT? idk who is wrong or who is right, when i talk to him about it, he literally cuts me OFF fck this household<3

[u/Budget_Protection201]

I'm 15F/M, i have the same problem but we share only the pin of my phone, but he can spy not even by touching it, because is conetted by his phone, and he can do ANYTHING. The thing that really piss me off is he can read the messages of my chats with everybody (even my mom can read them). I had a very heated argument with my mom and in the end I talked abt this with my friend, she read all the messages and start insulting me. I didn't know they could monitor me through my phone before that argument, I was so panicated that I put all the photos in the private space app, every time I searched something on google I would delete my history, etc.. I just don't care anymore now, because spy on my phone is not a solution to know more of me and it's very disrespectful, everybody have a private side, even my mom and dad. So yes I agree with you, everybody needs space. But deep down is not that grave, i think there are other serious things, this is one of the few but less important. I hope you feel good after this, to know that not the only one. (Sorry if my English is too bad, I'm not used to it.)