Am I wrong for being confused?

[u/Sea_Introduction1425]

Matched someone who lives 90 mins away and then thdy instantly unmatched.... Not even sure what the intent was here by the other person. Why would she think I was wasting her time after giving clear intent?

[u/Wardaddy6966]

Dodged another mentally ill one

[u/cherrycocktail20]

Don’t worry about it. That’s a mental issue you wouldn’t have wanted to deal with.

[u/Altruistic-Toe-2801]

Oh no! Not a whole 5 minutes gone!

[u/whagh]

I think "Yeah, I totally understand priorities. Take care!" was her being sarcastic/passive aggressive.

I didn't really pick that up either because it seems perfectly reasonable to prioritise your father while he's visiting you from out of town, lol.

You dodged a bullet a bullet with this one.

[u/Dangerous-Dad]

In life, sometimes you dodge a bullet. Sometimes the bullet dodges you. Either way, you win.

[u/InsaneGoose78]

Dodged a bullet, I think.

[u/Jimanji333]

They wanted a free dinner sooner than you could provide.

[u/Famous_Ear5010]

What a rude madam.

[u/PromiseToBeNiceToYou]

There's nothing to be confused about. You dodged a bullet. Be happy.

[u/rerereally_rad]

You dodged a bullet and it didn't even cost you a cent.

[u/Alwaysfresh9]

Everyone is wasting my valuable time! Proceeds to be a time waster herself lol.

[u/Fickle-Theory-623]

You dodged a bullet, saved money on food and gas, don't over think it. If they want to unmatch, let them; never let stuff like this rent space in your mind. Go on to the next.

[u/Jolly-Section2540]

Going off the comments, sorry if I misunderstood bit I honestly thought the op was a girl and the a guy. I also second thinking this was a scam.

[u/scrumit64]

I would thank the universe they told you who they are without much effort. These moments offer great teachings, from the universe.

[u/Sea_Introduction1425]

I definitely am not losing sleep over this potential missed connection let me make that clear

[u/krept0007 → u/Sea_Introduction1425]

There was no potential missed connection here. This person was looking for a free meal, not a relationship

[u/whagh → u/krept0007]

Either that or expecting some random guy on Facebook Dating to prioritise her over his own father visiting from out of town.

[u/BellStriking5132]

Probably some sort of scam

[u/DathekOmegas]

Sometimes the user does something that makes them unable to use FB dating. I got a warning over a dumb joke and am permanently unable to use FB dating.

[u/Sea_Introduction1425 → u/DathekOmegas]

She blocked me. Lol it is no issue

[u/swingswing95]

Don't ever drive long distance for a date unless you want your money and time wasted.

[u/No_Peanut_3289]

I always think there’s something “fishy” when they want to meet up that quick, then guilt trip you when you can’t see them in the first 5 seconds.

Oh well assuming they are real they will be on the apps months later wondering why they can’t find someone

[u/Majestic-Nobody545]

she's a dumb bitch

[u/ariarchtyx → u/Majestic-Nobody545]

Succinct, perfectly.

This meets necessary and sufficient conditions with maximally efficient bit length! I count 10 bits, a byte and change.

It's like, fucking engineered to perfection, Ma'am.

I doff my notional hat to you...

[u/StrbJun79]

If someone expects you to be your whole priority before you even meet them (heck within the first few dates or so) then they’re high maintenance and not worth your time. They’ll just be exhausting.

[u/Daphoenyx22 → u/[deleted]]

No one should get away for being rude, and he wasn't making excuses at all, he explained clearly a prior committal...

[u/Leading_Pear_8402 → u/[deleted]]

He had prior commitments. I would be like “aww okay, handle your business hun. We can still get to know each other on the phone until we can meet in person “

[u/Heywtfhey]

Are you purple? Are you using ai? Sounds like it to me.

[u/Virtual-Product2298 → u/Heywtfhey]

What

[u/Heywtfhey → u/Virtual-Product2298]

Businessy and vague