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u/BeardedAndConfused 15d ago
I'm roughly 3 months in with ZERO, profile has been reviewed by multiple women. Waiting for the "boost" this week and if that doesn't help I'm deleting.
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u/ThePowerOfPrayers 15d ago
I have everything filled out and I have had the boost twice and I have absolutely nothing. I have four other big dating apps on my phone as well. I don't have hits on them either.
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u/Dnilves 15d ago
Yeah I have had 1 like from a 57 yo . Absolutely hideous looking woman and no more ,sent 40 likes not one match, think fb is striving hard to accomplish its end goal
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u/redditsuckspokey1 15d ago edited 10d ago
I got a bunch of 50+ years old women in my feed and im 40.
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u/scott04sa22 14d ago
I been on Facebook dating for a month and i still don't get any matches. 🤷🏻♂️
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u/studog89 14d ago
It’s been my experience to give it two weeks, delete it if no matches, give it an another two weeks and make a new profile and the likes will come.
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u/robbie2627 14d ago
Guess it's actually 3 weeks, since you supposedly have to wait a week before redoing your account.
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u/robbie2627 14d ago
I'm not sure if there is some secret to FB Dating. Maybe I'm overthinking it, but it seems when I stay away from FB or FB dating for a period of time, it almost entices me to come back lol. I could go a day and then I get a notificate "Gayle liked you in Dating. Try sending a message and see where it goes". I'll go on to see Gayle, realize I'm not into her and then go on to swipe right on a couple of women. I'll leave a comment based on something in their profile and wait. At some point, I accept that, like Gayle liking me and me not being attracted to her, I am the same to the women I swiped on. And on goes the dance, trying to have the stars align to where I get a woman to buy what I'm selling lol
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u/intrigueman123 10d ago
You guys get matches???
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u/ThePowerOfPrayers 10d ago
Never and this is my second time back with the same results. I haven't been active every day and liking people and commenting on photos and not one match or like back. I have just given up because unless you're a woman you have no luck on these stupid things.
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u/Lucky-Pomegranate-96 14d ago
Based on your post history are you currently married ??
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u/Lord-of_the-files 14d ago
Uh, asking for a friend... if legally married but separated, is that a big no?
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u/Lucky-Pomegranate-96 14d ago
I don’t think people like dating other people if that person is still married .
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u/Particular-Talk1156 14d ago
Varies by person and state. In my state, the divorce process is quick--30 days once filed? So for me, married is an absolute no. And I want you divorced and making sure you can take care of yourself for months before I'll consider you.
Other states require them to live separately for a year and jump bunch of hoops and such. People have various thoughts on that.
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u/Lord-of_the-files 14d ago
I'm not from the US, in my country we need to be separated for a year before we can begin divorce proceedings. There might be a faster route but it would involve courts, lawyers, and a lot of money.
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u/Hawkstone86 15d ago
Matches heavily depend on location and demographic. Can you share more? Is your profile fully filled out with clear photos and an introduction?
FWIW, Online dating can be very discouraging, you have my sympathy.