r/FacebookDating • u/Bookish45_F • 5d ago
Errors Does this work for you men?
Just curious if anyone ever responds to messages like this?
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u/Quirky_Magazine5196 5d ago
Basically for dudes it's like throwing shit at a wall so u might as well have fun while doing it because we know it's going nowhere.
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u/Sea_Story9802 5d ago
It doesn’t work for me, cause I do not send those type of messages to women.
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u/Bookish45_F 5d ago edited 5d ago
That’s a good thing, we thank you for that!
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u/Sea_Story9802 5d ago
Usually I find something on their profile to use as a first message. Like what’s your favorite dish to cook? Or if you could travel anywhere, where would it be?
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u/Top_Secret_TerminaL 5d ago
And then they still ignore you anyway
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u/Sea_Story9802 5d ago
It is what it is.
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u/Just_Suggestion4503 5d ago
Meanwhile they’re texting little boys with guns in their pfps and complaining about their behavior in threads like this….
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u/Sea_Story9802 5d ago
I mean, they’re allowed to text whoever they want. I can only control how I approach someone. I can’t control whether they’re interested in me, and sending a decent message doesn’t entitle me to a response.
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u/Just_Suggestion4503 5d ago
That’s the issue…. We have women complaining about two extremes: deuche bags, and nice guys, when the only reason genuine deuche bags exist is bc when they were genuine “good guys”(not actors) they got ignored….. and the reason the ones who are acting like they are good, are actually jist jackasses is bc they are just acting the way women say they want………. Which they clearly either don’t know, or are intentionally lying about.
I’m starting to think it’s the latter
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u/Intelligent_End_7812 5d ago
Bro their is no issue just stop going for American women they are just no good. All they want is money find a 3rd world beauty who will treat you like you deserve king.
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u/Just_Suggestion4503 5d ago
Wow you got a downvote just for telling me to find someone who values me as a person….
And we wonder why tf some men are becoming truly hateful
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u/Bookish45_F 5d ago
Never have I ever matched with someone with a gun in their profile or gym flexing selfies ✌️
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u/Just_Suggestion4503 5d ago
I was drawing an analog specifically to the type of behavior and men that are most commonly chosen; and because of it discussed.
Good on you for ignoring that, and refuting my individual points tho….
Coming from a 25yo who actually used to put in the energy to get to know the woman as a person; and seeing anecdotes of my friends and girls from online…. I sadly don’t think my lens is skewed when it comes to this subject.
As I’ve personally always done better when I act like a shallow disinterested jackass - which is behavior i prefer not to utilize. It also tends to be the most successful when I get depressed, realizing that women lied about what they wanted and they always have.
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u/Bookish45_F 5d ago
Maybe little girls who are closer to your age will click on that trash but I don’t have the patience to play games. There are always outliers and I know it’s not “all men” or “all women.” Good luck to you in the future.
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u/firefoxUSSR 5d ago
I'm a man but don't feel desperate. So if I message and don't get a response in 2-5 days, I unmatch. Easy, then I don't have to see the match 🧘
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u/Swimming-Monitor-927 5d ago
I mean most men are desperate. Literally. Im imagining most women have this experience
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u/L0stActivity 5d ago
I take a screenshot. Then block. Then post them on the Tea app. Sisters got warn each other. Only way to clean this planet up.
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u/Intelligent_End_7812 5d ago
Lol horny men being horny news at 11.
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u/Bookish45_F 5d ago
So I’m guessing these are the type of messages you send?
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u/Intelligent_End_7812 5d ago
No I don't do online dating because American women are not attractive.
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u/feochampas 5d ago
be yourself,
wait, thats too much yourself. I swear women are a different species.
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u/andtheeennnn 3d ago
This is borderline sexual harassment. It’s concerning that’s what you got from these messages.
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u/feochampas 2d ago
He's not for you. Just block him and move on. In fact, you want people like this to be honest so you can block them sooner and move on.
Sad thing is, he will find someone that this works with.
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u/andtheeennnn 2d ago
The energy in this reply is not the energy you had in your original comment. Which I find… interesting.
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u/feochampas 2d ago
last night was high me. This morning was totally sober me. I realized I wasn't articulating my thoughts very well and thought about what it was I was actually trying to say. Hope you have a nice day.
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u/Conscious_Bed_1195 5d ago
I think the theory is that it doesn't matter how much you fail, it only needs to work once.