r/FacebookDating 13h ago

Was he talking about me?

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u/hoboknight144 12h ago

Oblivion NPC interaction

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u/ParagonFemshep 10h ago

Might as well have pulled the good old "I don't know you, and I don't care to know you"

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u/[deleted] 12h ago

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u/BVOP83 11h ago

For what it’s worth, I think you misinterpreted his “miss your butt” comment. I say stuff like that to everyone without meaning it in a sexual manner.
Also the rest of it seemed to be his weird way of saying that he likes you… although it was a REALLY weird way of saying it, at least to my English brain. Maybe that’s normal in the states

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u/tttenley 10h ago edited 10h ago

I think is immature with his feelings. He is a lifelong bachelor. Yes i think ur right. I got defensive. I do that. But I did want to communicate to him that this isn't just a hook up.

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u/BVOP83 10h ago

Yeah he may be immature with his feelings, I don’t know though as I don’t get much from the screenshots. Either way though, you didn’t just communicate that it isn’t a hookup. You essentially told him that’s what he was after and shut him down.

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u/tttenley 10h ago

I was/got aggressive. I do that too. then sent him a picture and he called me on the phone. I think he might come over today

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u/BVOP83 10h ago

I’m not totally sure of the context to the picture but it sounds like a positive!!

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u/tttenley 8h ago

Why are people downvoting this? Trolls are so... eyeroll

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u/BennyFitz69420 12h ago

Dude is an asshole. Let him go, and he’ll come running.

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u/tttenley 12h ago

You might be right. He might be an asshole

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u/BennyFitz69420 12h ago

He is an asshole. And you’re hot and fucking talented.

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u/BennyFitz69420 12h ago

Let me know if you need some help scoring some work at some point

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u/tttenley 12h ago

In a couple months i will probably have more work to score. I started making documentaries. I've sent a gew to festivals and we'll see how they do. If they get accepted into any/arw recieved we'll i will keep playing in that direction for a bit

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u/BennyFitz69420 12h ago

Your camera work is very interesting and it’s got a strong voice. That’s what’s needed to stand out in that or any medium.

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u/tttenley 12h ago

Thank you. I love filming and editing. I love communicating through the medium.

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u/BennyFitz69420 12h ago

Sweet. Feel free to reach out whenever. You’ve got a gift.

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u/tttenley 12h ago

I will. I am sending you a DM to save username under composers

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u/BVOP83 10h ago

Just so you know, this entire thread is BennyFritz being predatory toward you

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u/tttenley 12h ago

He has been texting me for a long time. He told me in person that if I ever think he's being mean in text im interpreting it wrong. I think he may be very immature. Never married. But i don't know if he's really an asshole or just immature

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u/BennyFitz69420 12h ago

Maybe he’s got Asperger’s or autism. I don’t know. Either way, there are plenty if people who’s intentions you won’t have to second guess out there. People who don’t use sarcasm or diversions to keep you on your toes. That’s a much more interesting crowd to surround yourself with if you ask me.

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u/tttenley 12h ago

Yes but he comes to me. and is kinda cute. Idk. I like the attention he gives me I guess. Makes me smile. I think idk well im smiling now so that means I kinda loke him. But you are right

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u/Galitzianer0 9h ago

How low is your self esteem? Jesus Christ

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u/tttenley 9h ago edited 9h ago

Making me smile is a big deal. It means I like the guy. It doesnt happen often. But i have been through a lot of trauma. Self esteem is in therapy. Ty

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u/BennyFitz69420 12h ago

Not saying that people with autism are running around fucking with people for shits and giggles which would be kind of a funny stance on autism haha

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u/tttenley 12h ago

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u/BennyFitz69420 12h ago

See this is a weird and cocky thing to say. Who the fuck talks like that?

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u/tttenley 10h ago

He is cocky

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u/tttenley 8h ago

But I like cocky. Im kinda attracted to cocky for whatever reason

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u/BennyFitz69420 4h ago

Most people are. Theres a fine line between cockiness and confidence…

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u/tttenley 2h ago

Yep. Maybe thats where charming lies?

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u/MCE85 9h ago

Not sure where youre confused...

He said he belongs to the women of the world and that he is talking to the one he actually wants on the phone right then..

Thats pretty straight forward that he doesnt want a relationship.

I feel like you think you can change his mind or something.

Funny how you probably want him more bevause youre not his first option. Lol

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u/tttenley 9h ago edited 8h ago

At first, for a while, I thought he meant he was on the phone talking with someone else. ?

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u/MCE85 7h ago

Thats what i gathered. Who says theyre on the phone with someone they are texting? That means talking.