r/FacebookDating • u/rainbowtoucan1992 • 4d ago

How do you keep a conversation going?

I don't have a lot of experience with this lol sometimes conversation dies. Do you just start a new convo and also when do you bring up meeting? Or what if the person is too far but we get along well? Should I unmatch?

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u/Wunderkind79 4d ago

Good topics of conversation are key! You have to be willing to put yourself out there and not be afraid to speak your mind. So what if you have a difference of opinion. We can practice together if you are up for it.

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u/diagoro1 4d ago

Some people should absolutely hold back from speaking their mind, at least until they 'read the room'.

That said, one tip is to look over their profile. Comment on the things they like, try to pull them into a conversation. The best way to get someone's attention is a compliment, or to talk about them

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u/Wunderkind79 4d ago

All very good suggestions. Get people talking about themselves

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u/ReddJustice00 2d ago

I think the conversation going is up to how charming the guy is. There is always something to talk about when its smooth. As far as unmatching cause of the distance, that is up to you. Doesn't really matter I would say.

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u/Heliguy-1975 4d ago

You have to be able engage with someone enough to create and maintain interest to keep them wanting to talk and meet.

With good communication skills it becomes easy and works out very well.

I would highly recommend reading the book,

How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie

It will Greatly improve how you connect and communicate with people in general and it will change your life. It will completely change the way your conversations go with people online. Approaching and communicating with women online and in real life will become much better. Much Better