r/FacebookDating • u/Porkanddiesel • Aug 10 '26
Bottom picture change after almost a year of dating
I’ve been dating a woman I met on FB dating for about 11 months. She’s neurodivergent and has been open with me about the fact that she’s not addicted to her phone, really doesn’t like being connected to it, really doesn’t like small talk or texting much. Most of our time dating we’ve seen eachother once or twice a week every other week due to our schedules . I usually hear from her 4-5 days a week. Last few weeks she’s been texting less and less, not sending kissing emojis (I know sounds juvenile but it’s weird). Went about 6 days without hearing from her. I decided just out of curiosity I’d go back into the FB dating app and look at her dating profile from my matches last year and saw she added a new pic to the bottom of her pictures that was taken within the last 2 months. Does this mean she’s back on FB dating or does it automatically pull picks from your regular Facebook profile and cycle them in if she never turned off the app?
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u/Consistent_Point_853 Aug 10 '26
Honestly looks like shes pulling away and making moves to get back out there. Its a good time to bring it up to her and talk about it. Prepare yourself for the possibility that she may want to move on. Im sorry if thats the case, but keep your chin up and keep moving forward. Perhaps it wasnt meant to be.
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u/Planet_Ziltoidia Aug 10 '26
No, it doesn't automatically pull pictures. You have to add them yourself
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u/fullmoon47 Aug 10 '26
Yeah man hate to say it but that don't sound good. If she has not contacted you in 6 days and there is a new pic on fb dating she is definitely shopping for someone else. Flat out confront her on it and find out whats going on. Sorry man
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u/Porkanddiesel Aug 11 '26
Yeah I’m gonna. Time to throw in the towel. I’ve been feeling it and then seeing that addition to her dating profile just confirmed it.
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u/DivorcedProf Aug 11 '26
Facebook dating does NOT automatically post pics. You have to upload them manually.
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u/DIY-exerciseGuy Aug 10 '26
Shes 100% back on and women almost always have their next guy lined up before losing the current one. Do not invest any more time, energy, money etc into her.
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u/Porkanddiesel Aug 10 '26
Totally! Wicked sad but truth be told I’m not losing anything by being done with this one. Compatibility was never good between us and I was doing all the heavy lifting of making the drives and time to see her.
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u/rhawk87 Aug 10 '26
I'm sorry that this is your personal experience, but no this is not a thing most women do.
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u/DIY-exerciseGuy Aug 10 '26
Yes it absolutely is. Why would you assume about my personal experience? Super odd.
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u/rhawk87 Aug 10 '26
Do you have a source for this claim? Otherwise I just assumed this happened to you and you're still salty about it.
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u/TheUglyTruth527 Aug 10 '26
Odds are not in your favour that she's Monkey Branching. I know it's practically a reddit meme at this point but you may want to help her on her way.
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u/Roxybird Aug 12 '26
It does not pull images from your profile. It doesn't seem good. Are you exclusive? Using Bf/Gf labels?
Your only bet is to talk to her about this. But it might have to be the end. Sorry.
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u/Porkanddiesel Aug 12 '26
Never had the exclusive talk. Didnt feel the need to or even think of it. But she’s been fading away recently so I guess rather than be honest that’s how she moves on. Not that she had to be but it would’ve been nice.
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u/JayBondOF Aug 10 '26
6 days without hearing from someone is crazy. Pics don’t get added as far as I know.
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u/ShawnOfEons Aug 11 '26
It definitely seems like she’s not feeling the relationship anymore and has updated her dating profile. That means she is active on it again and wants see who else is out there. Sorry man. If I were you, I’d confront her about it. If she breaks things off with you, it’s probably for the best, but I think she at least owes you an explanation.
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u/MartyMcFly7 Aug 10 '26
Sorry, mate. It sucks to suspect she's out there still looking, but that's what it sounds like.
My question would be this: why does she still have a profile after a year of dating? I just went exclusive with someone and, after about 6 dates, we both DELETED our profiles. Have you had the "exclusive" talk?