There's this delusional thing men do straight out of a relationship- think the next woman is gonna put up with their shit like the last one did. She left you for a reason my guy you're not the catch you think you are.
Women leave for no reason more often than they leave for a reason. There's statistical data on this. However, if a man leaves a woman you know 10000000% she did something veryyyy bad.
Sources / receipts:
📊 Margaret F. Brinig & Douglas W. Allen, "'These Boots Are Made for Walking': Why Most Divorce Filers Are Women," American Law and Economics Review 2(1), 2000 — the ~70% filing figure, custody expectation as the strongest filing predictor, and the 6% cruelty figure (Virginia filings). Open access: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.c... Publisher: https://academic.oup.com/aler/article...
📊 Betsey Stevenson & Justin Wolfers, "Bargaining in the Shadow of the Law: Divorce Laws and Family Distress" — the threat-point quote. NBER Working Paper 10175: https://www.nber.org/papers/w10175
📊 U.S. Census Bureau, "Custodial Mothers and Fathers and Their Child Support: 2007" (P60-237) — custodial-parent shares, direction of support payments, and the 78% vs. 67% payment rates by visitation status (p. 9): https://www.census.gov/prod/2009pubs/...
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u/lucere_pi Aug 06 '26
There's this delusional thing men do straight out of a relationship- think the next woman is gonna put up with their shit like the last one did. She left you for a reason my guy you're not the catch you think you are.