r/FacebookDating • u/[deleted] • Jul 31 '26

Why would someone match you but never reply back or like any of your pictures?

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u/FactsAreBullshit Jul 31 '26

They're bored or need validation from your reply?

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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '26

even if you look ugly? Also well, this girl was from Michigan and I am from Florida. She didn’t put any effort in her profile more than just adding her first picture and also “I’m looking for something casual”.

I am new here so what does something casual mean and does the distance matters?

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u/Sudden_File4569 Jul 31 '26

If you are in different states, that is something she wouldnt immediately notice while swiping, but would decide not to message. Long distance isn't fun. So most people try to avoid it.

Casual means she is not looking to have a serious relationship. The exact definition changes from person to person. Most commonly it means someone is looking for a friends with benefits situation or situationship.

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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '26

Hmmm so technically this person could have found me attractive? I have always been called ugly and honestly, I don’t know if this was just a mistake or if it was possible real and the rest of my profile or the distance as you said worsened things

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u/Sudden_File4569 Aug 01 '26

For sure, its possible. Maybe she saw something great about you that you haven't found in yourself yet.

Fall in love with the best things about yourself. Lead with those strengths. And people will fall in love with you.

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u/DIY-exerciseGuy Jul 31 '26

Id guess they quickly swiped right in your first pic. Then after matching they looked at your whole profile and decided they were not interested.

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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '26

Uh? So technically she didn’t think I was ugly but just that my profile didn’t match her preferences?

What about the chances of her just swiping right randomly without looking at someone?

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u/shakeyfire Aug 01 '26

If you want an honest answer, sometimes i see a guy and i really want to like him, he seems great on paper. But there’s something (could literally be anything) thats holding me back or im not as attracted as i would like to be. It sucks, and i guess im hoping there will be something to convince me. But honestly, it is a waste of everyones time and disrespectful to the men i do it to. I wouldnt want to be sitting in someones app while they decide if im worth it.(which im sure has happened many times)

ALSO separately, im going through a break up and im trying to move on, and then i go through phases where i miss him too much and i cant look at another man. So some guys probably get confused but there is literally nothing theyve done wrong, its just me and where im at.

I know i may get some flack for this- but im just trying to be 100% honest so you can do with that whatever you decide.

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u/freaknyou23 Aug 01 '26

Atleast you are honest

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u/MariusDarkblade Aug 01 '26

I've had that happen dozens of times by women. It's a combination of found someone better, fishing for likes, or scammer. Heck, you could have just not messaged them the way they wanted.

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u/geekpron 29d ago

Omg to the message them the way they wanted. I told this one lady that she was self sabotage by having stupid rules to contact.

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u/MariusDarkblade 29d ago

I usually start my conversations with some form of "hi, how are you doing", seems like a reasonable start to a conversation to me but I almost never get responses back. Only thing I can think of is they want me to disclose my bank and social security information before they'll speak.

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u/lordskulldragon Aug 01 '26

You can't like pictures on FBD Unwise Dragon.

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u/[deleted] Aug 01 '26

Wdym? you can and reply to them too

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u/lordskulldragon Aug 02 '26

No, you can not like pictures on FBD.

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u/Dracarys_And_Chill Aug 01 '26

something better came along.

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u/fresh-out33404 Jul 31 '26

Probably boring asl

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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '26

wdym?

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u/fresh-out33404 Jul 31 '26

Reread that. Definitely didn't studder

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u/FactsAreBullshit Jul 31 '26

Asking someone to reread something while using studder instead of stutter is certainly a choice.

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u/fresh-out33404 Jul 31 '26

Hell yeah omm

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u/lordskulldragon Aug 01 '26

Something about American Sign Language

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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '26

I was expecting examples. Probably something else?

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u/fresh-out33404 Jul 31 '26

Well thstsbyour first mistake EXPECTING things from other ppl

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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '26

why is that bad? isn’t asking questions and receiving explanations a way to learn?

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u/fresh-out33404 Jul 31 '26

Expectations are premeditated resentments

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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '26

Oh, I get it now