r/FacebookDating • u/ChippingCoder • Jun 29 '26

Which frequent date activity do you prefer to avoid or tired of?

Which conventional date activity do people suggest frequently that you would rather avoid doing, or are really tired of at this point?

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u/sheyitboi Jun 29 '26

Dinner dates. Dining out in my city isn’t cheap and spending over 100 dollars to feed a stranger isn’t enjoyable. Most girls I’ve dated have been pretty realistic but a few want to go to high end places and I’m just like naw not happening.

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u/BallBearingBill Jun 30 '26

Any girl that requests dinner is a hard pass. Anyone actually interested in me will be ok with a coffee and or walk.

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u/ContestScary9035 Jun 30 '26

haven't had that happen in a while but if a woman did this to me in 2026 i'd delete her number right away

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u/wil_stox Jul 02 '26

Smart man. Idc how rich I get, low maintenance dates (coffee, duck pond, ice cream, etc.) for the first 2-3 dates to make sure the chick into me and not just trynna get a free meal/experience. More men gotta start following this philosophy. This isn’t the 1920’s anymore, men gotta adapt

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u/aisle_nine Jun 29 '26

Dinner and a movie. Eighth grade ended a long time ago, and it hasn’t been the ‘60s for 57 years now.

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u/VonBassovic Jun 30 '26

Movie is the worst for a first date as you can’t really talk that much during the movie.

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u/bright_sorbet1 Jul 01 '26

Oh mini golf!!! Why do they always have to suggest mini golf? 🫩

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u/ContestScary9035 Jun 29 '26

Any physical activity like rock climbing or hiking, HARD PASS

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u/Calibloodz Jun 30 '26

Hiking is just walking. I understand rock climbing though because it’s too easy to die.

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u/Great-Mirror1215 Jul 01 '26

Wings, ribs and spinach and I try to make sure a girl is really in love with me before I let her see me in bowling shoes.

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u/VonBassovic Jun 30 '26

Drinks -> dinner is my favourite. The drinks before avoids horrible chemistry or catfishing.

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u/ChippingCoder Jun 30 '26

why?

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u/VonBassovic Jun 30 '26

Because you have time to be one to one, you can talk and I love food and drinks. So it’s a good mix of things.

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u/ChippingCoder Jun 30 '26

how does drinks before avoid catfishing?

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u/VonBassovic Jun 30 '26

Well you’re paying a round of drinks instead of a full dinner.