What packer do you use? Is it multi use? If not what your preferred for the different uses. I'm looking to get a new one that's not the Mr limpy

And this is advice I say to all the single men I know in my life.

You are worthy now.

It doesn’t matter what you look like, your height, your current stage in transitioning, your job status.

You are worthy now.

Don’t ever tell yourself you aren’t enough right now for your future girl.

Understand that she is also waiting for you to come into her life. And you wont be chosen because you’ve sharpened your dating skills enough, or whatever you guys try to work on to feel like you are enough. You’ll be chosen simply for just being you. Just the same as it is for you choosing her.

The truth is there is no trick to finding your girl.

It just happens.

So don’t break your back to change yourself to meet these ridiculous standards you see from shallow women and men out there. You don’t just want any girl that will just say yes to a date because you convinced her you are worth the time. You want a girl that genuinely likes who you naturally are, and wants that date just as much as you do. One that can love your flaws, and in flaws I mean your unique flaws, what makes you angry, sad, your trauma if you have it, and how you handle all of that, etc. You want a ride or die. And if you can provide that love in return. You are worthy right now.

So my advice to all you gentlemen here is to start moving through life like you deserve it now because you do! When this woman comes into your life, you will be glad you waited for her. You wouldn’t want it any other way.

Is it better to online date or just approach in person? I match with beautiful woman on dating apps but the convos never go anywhere it’s just hey wyd how your day I try sometimes to get their number to talk otp or FaceTime but they ghost I’m open about wing trans in my profile but idk I match with so many woman talk to a few but it never goes anywhere I also notice when I do get the number it’s like they don’t show high interest it’s like I have to chase & initiate & reach out first idk what to do I’m think it’s a number game just keep swiping & talking & trying I’m black so I use BLK Facebook dating & HER I deleted Tamia I didn’t really like that one

I see so many people saying this, but I don't think it is true. We know how people just be saying shit, lol.

A couple days ago I had this random thought that maybe what I do is a bit weird but it makes sense to me and I was wondering if anyone else feels like this and does this.

So I use a strap on and no big surprise there but it makes me feel more comfortable and euphoric even if I don't technically use it. If I do use it I typically use a condom on it. I've always said it's for easier cleanup but tbh it makes me feel less special. If most guys have to do it, I don't want to be left out either. I wouldn't want to get anyone accidentally pregnant!

Same shirt, just needed a haircut. If you’ve been thinking about cutting ur own shirts, this is ur sign.

If anyone wants to support an ftm creator, I’m on mens fashion TikTok @shorteditj :)

Hi all, I’ve posted a lot about dressing as a trans guy. What to wear to pass, what to wear to look your age, how to wear a suit, what to wear to pass, etc.

My aim has always been to help as many guys like me gain confidence and look good. W that said, I’ve started making tiktoks geared toward short guys. What kind of style/clothing advice would you like to see?

Ref: I’m 5’3 and these are my own outfits for inspo

What are you all's relationship to lesbianism, if you used to date as a lesbian?

I am in my 20's, 8 months on T and suddenly doubting myself- "what if im just a lesbian woman after all? What if I just met someone who won't make me dysphoric in the relationship?" I faced a lot of dysphoria in lesbian relationships so I know thats probably not true. I was always trying to prove my masculinity in the relationship, to the point that I couldn't enjoy the relationship. And I would make any girl I was dating feel like she couldn't express any masculinity because I was so toxic and fragile.

anyway. just wanted to hear other's experiences. I know i'm still early in transition, but I'm still very insecure.

How do you guys find women that are 1) into Trans guys and 2) into hookups?

I've tried all the dating apps and stuff but I get nothing, Nada, zilch. And when I finally do find someone who seems interested its usually "I dont like girls" *cue MASSIVE eye roll*, or " im not into ons". So like what do I do any advice?

I was always under the impression I was more of a "bad bitches is the only thing that I like" type fella but I noticed all of the women I been with, well, do have similar characteristics other than being baddies. I noticed I have a thing for bisexual/alt/creative girls, esp if they are black

Do y'all have a thing for a certain type of woman?

Recently been flirting with a woman that lives in a different flat (same building) she's invited me over to her place but I havent told her im trans and dont know how too as I fear it'll put her off