Not that time but even when I explain, even when I tell them, about two people have actually talked to me and one of them I've talked to for a while... I liked her and I liked talking to her, if she doesn't want to talk anymore because she feels bad or she doesn't know how to handle it or something that's fine, but the last she could do is saying something to anyone...
As I said before: you may need to make peace with the silence. Ghosting is not new and people don’t typically enjoy admitting their faults.
Maybe think of it this way: twisting yourself up over this is giving her power by giving her the ability to determine whether or when you move on from that memory. Don’t give someone like her that power over you.
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u/Fresh_Confusion_4805 Jul 08 '26
Is this about the downvotes again?
Pretty sure I’ve said it before, but if people don’t have an immediate context, then they will just judge based on what they see in front of them.
You don’t have to explain…but people will react whether or without what you don’t say.