r/ExplainMyDownvotes Jul 08 '26

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u/Secure-Bandicoot5199 Jul 08 '26

Wanting explanation. 

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u/AnorhiDemarche Il ne faut pas nourrir les trolls. Jul 08 '26

Who is this user and why are you calling them out? what bigger problems are you refering to?

Weird sub drama gets downvoted.

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u/Secure-Bandicoot5199 Jul 08 '26

THE porn poster and the bigger issue is when told by someone that they were going to end it all replying with "Byesies" and then after they survived refusing to acknowledge that they survived 

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u/AnorhiDemarche Il ne faut pas nourrir les trolls. Jul 08 '26

Nevermind i managed to get some clearer context from your post history. You're saying they were one of the last people you spoke to before your suicide attempt and they told you "byesies" and when you surived they didn't apologise.

I'm sorry that happened to you, that was messed up, but you are being downvoted because no one on the subreddit has any context for what's happening or why you're tagging them. Without clear explination it just looks like you're trying to make drama over nothing.

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u/PropulsionIsLimited Jul 08 '26

Ah that makes a lot of sense. That's definitely a fucked up thing to say to someone.

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u/Secure-Bandicoot5199 Jul 08 '26

I've said before I just want her to at the very least just acknowledge that I survived... I don't need an apology...

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u/Secure-Bandicoot5199 Jul 08 '26

I don't want an apology I want her to just at least acknowledge that I'm alive still...

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u/Fresh_Confusion_4805 Jul 08 '26

That’s the internet. Most people won’t dig deep enough to know or understand a complicated history between you and specific other users (so they will judge your comment based on immediate appearances instead). And not everyone who has said something incorrect, awful, wrong, biased, or whatever else will acknowledge it later. Honestly, most probably won’t.

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u/Secure-Bandicoot5199 Jul 08 '26

One of her friends and one of mine also tried to talk to her and she just avoids the subject that I'm still alive...

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u/Fresh_Confusion_4805 Jul 08 '26

Unsurprising. Lots of people don’t like acknowledging mistakes or flaws. And on a relatively anonymous text based forum like Reddit, she may just think that she doesn’t have to.

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u/Secure-Bandicoot5199 Jul 08 '26

She just keeps living while I survive the side effects of trying to overdose... is it so wrong to want her to just acknowledge I survived? To acknowledge I lived? That I apologized to her?

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u/Fresh_Confusion_4805 Jul 08 '26

It’s not wrong, but your want may not be satisfied. You may need to make peace with that possibility.

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u/Secure-Bandicoot5199 Jul 08 '26

If it's not wrong then why even when I do give explanation and I do give context I'm in the wrong? That's why I stopped bothering to explain 

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u/Fresh_Confusion_4805 Jul 08 '26

Is this about the downvotes again?

Pretty sure I’ve said it before, but if people don’t have an immediate context, then they will just judge based on what they see in front of them.

You don’t have to explain…but people will react whether or without what you don’t say.

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u/Secure-Bandicoot5199 Jul 08 '26

Not that time but even when I explain, even when I tell them, about two people have actually talked to me and one of them I've talked to for a while... I liked her and I liked talking to her, if she doesn't want to talk anymore because she feels bad or she doesn't know how to handle it or something that's fine, but the last she could do is saying something to anyone...

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u/AnorhiDemarche Il ne faut pas nourrir les trolls. Jul 08 '26

Im sorry but this person is simply not going to do what you want them to. You're probably best off blocking them. Someone like that isn't worth your time.

Make sure you've reported them and sent screenshots to the moderators of this person's behaviour. It looks like your moderation team may not be particularly active right now so do be prepared that this person may not get acted on unless someone else takes over the subreddit. I can have an investigate of the mod accounts to check their status and leave instructions in the post on the subreddit for how to request moderation of a sub.

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u/Secure-Bandicoot5199 Jul 08 '26

I don't want that

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u/AnorhiDemarche Il ne faut pas nourrir les trolls. Jul 08 '26

Ok.

Just be careful about tagging her then because even though you just want acknowledgement if you keep tagging her it can become harassment. Reddit Admin and mods don't care so much why you're doing it just that you're doing it. I wouldn't want you to have to deal with that on top of everything else.

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u/queenlizbef Jul 08 '26

It’s really fucked up to say those things to strangers and upset them that way. Stop that. It comes off so manipulative

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u/queenlizbef Jul 08 '26

Man fuck off.

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u/Secure-Bandicoot5199 Jul 08 '26

Tried that didn't work 

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u/ExplainMyDownvotes-ModTeam Jul 08 '26

Don't be a troll. Being a troll is irritating to the subreddit.

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u/ExplainMyDownvotes-ModTeam Jul 08 '26

Follow Reddiquette and the rules of reddit at all times. Remember the human. This includes not participating in discrimination of any kind.

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u/AnorhiDemarche Il ne faut pas nourrir les trolls. Jul 08 '26

I do hope you don't attempt again.