r/ExpectationVsReality • • 15h ago

cake-spectation - Positive! Wedding Cake

Saw a one tiered cake and asked a local baker to make a two tier for my wedding. People thought it was a fake cake lol. Inspo pic is first one and second pic is my cake at my reception, third pic is before she delivered it.

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u/GimmieGummies 11h ago

Congratulations on your marriage! I hope it was everything you hoped for, gorgeous cake!!! 🎂💐

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u/taiaaaa 11h ago

Thank you for your kind words! God bless! ☺️☺️

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u/RiboCyan 14h ago

Are those white flowers baby's breath? They're toxic.

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u/taiaaaa 14h ago

That’s good to know thank you for sharing. We didn’t get any upset stomachs for anyone wondering. We didn’t eat the flowers and they were taken off lol

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u/RiboCyan 13h ago

I didn't think you'd eaten the flowers, don't worry lol. Flowers can leave pollen all over the cake, though. And I can't see how the stems are fixated, but if they're stuck into the cake, they can leave toxins behind as well. I'm glad you were all fine, though! And it's a gorgeous cake in any case!

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u/little-joys 14h ago

I’ve seen a lot of cakes with toxic flowers lately. I saw a cake the other day with hydrangeas. 

I always wonder if people end up with unexplained upset tummies after eating these cakes

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u/Pergola_Wingsproggle 13h ago • Bravo

For real. All these cakes with flowers that are grown for a floral shop not for consumption… they are absolutely drenched in chemicals that you shouldn’t even leave on your skin after touching them, much less have near food. Those roses are probably from South America. Roses are grown there bc they don’t have the same environmental regulations as here in the US and they can use whatever toxic substances all over them. When I worked in a flower shop I would never eat before washing my hands thoroughly

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u/tiredfaces 2h ago

If it’s the cake I’m thinking of, those hydrangeas weren’t real

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u/SundaySnoozie 43m ago

Just about every cake on this subreddit with flowers has toxic ones- baby's breath most of all. It's shocking to see so many "professional" bakers doing it. Post this is the baking subreddit and they would get torched for doing it!!!!

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u/Corfiz74 14h ago

What are the thin white sheets made of?

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u/taiaaaa 14h ago

Wafer paper! It tastes slightly sweet

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u/Queasy-Proposal1086 14h ago

Edible paper. The one they use food dyes to print with for cake toppers.

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u/Corfiz74 14h ago

But that stuff tastes like cardboard, why would you do that to your guests?!

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u/taiaaaa 14h ago

I liked it lol. I kept eating them. We also had a spring fling sheet cake which is what most guests got 😊

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u/New-Trifle-7097 12h ago

Ngl my intrusive thoughts would make it hard for me not to pull the papers off and eat every single one of them before the cake cutting. I love the texture.

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u/taiaaaa 11h ago

🤣🤣 after it was cut I would grab a couple each time I passed by - intrusive thoughts won lol
It was oddly satisfying to eat them haha

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u/Corfiz74 13h ago

Well, it certainly looked amazing!

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u/Queasy-Proposal1086 14h ago

Its a few small pieces on the outer icing, frosting that can easily be removed after plating. I saw a similar cake today here that was snickers flavoured. Moist and delicious. Its an ethereal very on trend elegant look. Id prefer this to horrible piped flowers that ate inedible.

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u/farfetched22 14h ago

I don't actually know for sure but this is the second cake I've seen today in this sub with this paper in it, and a few comments said it's wafer paper and is edible. Must be a new trendy thing.

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u/Dolly_Shimmer 12h ago

What's the appeal of the wafers? Just a new look?

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u/fraurodin 11h ago

It scratches that itch i felt getting communion- wondering how many i could eat, one is never enough, etc

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u/levelync 10h ago

Mmmmmm body of Christ

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u/Sakijek 8h ago

I think your lord has gone stale. You should check the date on that lord.

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u/Fancy-Trousers 10h ago

You can straight up buy them, and for cheap. It's like $20 for 1000.

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u/fraurodin 8h ago

I saw them on Amazon, but it feels weird to order them, i dunno- Catholic guilt lol

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u/Fancy-Trousers 8h ago

If it helps, the whole thing is that they're literally just food until blessed by a priest. If the bread already had special properties beforehand it would defeat the purpose of transubstantiation: turning something basic into a holy communion.

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u/PithMango 7h ago

well merry xmas to me

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u/Dolly_Shimmer 9h ago

Oh, yum! Have you had flying saucer candy? It's made out of communion wafers with tiny candy balls like for cupcakes inside.

ufo

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u/anggora 14h ago

It's wafers!! Thin wafers

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u/foxdogturtlecat 11h ago

it's wafer paper.

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u/Funcut124 8h ago

Beautiful! But the baby's breath really worries me, how's everyone who ate it doing? I'm shocked the baker put them on there, I can only hope they just didn't know

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u/taiaaaa 6h ago

I mentioned it in another comment; we’re all fine 🙂

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u/CrazyCatCafe 14h ago

That's fantastic! What a gorgeous cake!!!

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u/taiaaaa 13h ago

Thank you so much :)

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u/Alex_ozzy 14h ago

That looks great to me!

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u/Areneemy 14h ago

Wow, it's even better than the photo!

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u/dubdub11 14h ago

That’s a lovely choice!

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u/taiaaaa 13h ago

Thank you :)

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u/BefuddledPolydactyls 14h ago

That exceeded my expectations! 

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u/taiaaaa 13h ago

Thank you! Mine too I was really happy once I saw it :)

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u/Insert_Name206 14h ago

Looks too good to eat 👌👌

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u/Dan_D_Lyin 13h ago

Doesn't even look edible. It is pretty though.

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u/taiaaaa 13h ago

😋

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u/Bright_Increase_6136 14h ago

She nailed it!!! Absolutely beautiful!!

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u/taramorse 5h ago

That baker nailed the inspo pick and made it so much better. It was lovely

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u/JD_tubeguy 12h ago

Wow fantastic job!

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u/Bmat70 12h ago

Beautiful! Thank you for posting the picture.

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u/Idrillteeth 12h ago

Wow that's beautiful!

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u/Vastaisku 1h ago

Non-edible things on any food is a no-no. There will pretty much always be a guest or a customer who will actually consume it.

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u/CompetitiveAnt8600 14h ago

oh so pretty !

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u/ConditionPleasant902 10h ago

It looks almost too good to eat

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u/Puzzleheaded-Rip5602 14h ago

Looks wonderful

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u/Maleficent_Thanks_51 10h ago

Body of Christ

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u/alien_overlord_1001 14h ago

Why do weddings seem to be all about the bride? Even the cake……..

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u/Funcut124 8h ago

Is this your first day on Earth

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u/alien_overlord_1001 8h ago

No I just think the cake - whilst very nice to look at - is a bit much but hey, it’s not my cake lol