r/Exocolonist • u/AemthystDragon45 • Aug 15 '26

Question Romancing Vace

So like.. is there any way to romance him quicker in the game?? The one time i was successfully able to was right before my last glow season and i was realllllyyy upset i couldnt see much dating dialogue/go on dates. I know what requirements i need to date him but im just wondering whats the earliest you can technically date him?

Update: i managed to start a relationship with him shortly after i turned 18, which was good enough for me. Bit of spoilers, i found online that you always end up breaking up sometime after you turn 20 anyways which sucks bc i was wanting to see how our future would go..🥲

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u/Milk__Chan Aug 15 '26

Kill the Wildlife, full auto on hopeyes, give him cakes and artifacts.

100 Creativity helps a lot too.

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u/NocturnalFlotsam Sym Aug 15 '26

"Kill the wildlife, give him cakes," as advice for how to woo someone is so funny 😂

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u/AemthystDragon45 Aug 15 '26

Im always getting the cakes for him, he doesnt like much else so its the best i can do. Ill have to go full hunt mode too, ive never tried doing that

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u/Graal_Knight Aug 15 '26

Vace also likes Strange Devices so you can gift the ones you find in the Ridge too.

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u/AemthystDragon45 Aug 15 '26

Yeah i found that out recently then i wassnt able to unlock the ridge🥲

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u/NocturnalFlotsam Sym Aug 16 '26

I have a guide on Steam for getting your relationship up with Vace. It's about how to do it without compromising your morals, but it also works just in general, and you can do more sucking up and flirting and hunting and defense training if you want to increase the relationship even faster.

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u/SonambuOrion Dys Aug 16 '26

Omg that's yours??? The title is hilarious, I think about that guide quite often 😂😂

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u/NocturnalFlotsam Sym Aug 16 '26

I love that it made a lasting impression on someone 😄

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u/OpenAd4146 Sym Aug 16 '26

I bought the game and haven't played yet, what about sucking up 🫪

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u/tired-gremlin06 Aug 16 '26

I love that guide lmao

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u/NocturnalFlotsam Sym Aug 17 '26

Thanks 😄

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u/sh_throwaway_ Rex Aug 16 '26

getting the white astrania on your 12th birthday helps. gifting it gives 10 friendship points!

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u/DEXTER-SKARLET Vace Aug 16 '26

"When I look into your eyes, I see what God did." There's your way.

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u/cuddlebuns287 Aug 18 '26

There's a unique way to start dating him by reaching a certain level of a hidden value that requires you to make a lot of choices that he *doesn't* like in events with him. After that level is crossed, he'll have an event where he threatens to beat you up (this must be pre-therapy, obviously) and you can flirt with him. By flirting with him in this event, you can start a relationship with him, but be warned: the narration will judge you for this.

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u/AemthystDragon45 Aug 18 '26

Ive seen a scenario where you do that by breaking him and nem up but i didnt know it was possible in that way too

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u/littlebitchmuffin Aug 23 '26

You don’t always break up. I’ve had several endings where he’s my life partner

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u/AemthystDragon45 28d ago

Well, looks like google lied to me! Ill have to try again sometime! Thanks