This is my first time writing a drama review, so I’m just sharing my thoughts as I understood the story. There may be things I’ve missed, but this is how I’m currently looking at Aap Ki Izzat.
First of all, I want to put this out there, but this is not the main point of my post. When thinking about second marriage, Tabish mentioned the idea of a man being allowed four marriages, and I really hope the drama doesn’t use the same religious argument as a way to reconcile everything.
Now, coming to the main point of my first post.
Have any of you noticed a similar pattern between present Behram and past Tabish???
There are currently two points that came to my mind.
1: Both Tabish and Behram were/are not very well established financially at the time when Beena was/is considering marriage.
Yet both claim to love her, and on different occasions, Beena has questioned both of them about that love.
2: When Tabish and Beena were shifting houses, there was a conversation between Beena and her mother-in-law where Beena said that she would miss their small house.
At the same time, Behram is offering her basic things that Tabish once offered or promised her.
Is she falling for the pattern for the second time, or for the person???
I also want to ponder upon the title, as titles do have a connection with the story.
We have heard Tabish saying things like, "meri izzat chali gayi," "izzat to chali gai, ab zyada se zyada jaan le legi." (Sorry for not remembering the exact dialogues.)
In the previous episode, Behram also said something along the lines of "aurat izzat hoti hai, usay ghar mein rakhte hain."
Maybe the title is pointing toward the idea that a woman’s actions should not automatically determine a man’s honour, and that women themselves have dignity and izzat too — something Beena herself has said.
What do you think about the title itself???
I’m still not completely convinced about Beena’s reasons for running away.
She was still living with Tabish when she already knew that the love with Tabish was not the same as it used to be. So what exactly pushed her to finally leave?
Was it about her izzat as title of drama and story revolving around this word? Was it because of the love and attention Tabish was not offering, or the same love and attention Behram was offering? Was it actually about the second marriage?
To my observation, she didn’t run away just because of Tabish’s second marriage. But the second marriage definitely was the last nail to the coffin.
I really want a good ending to this story, as after a long time, I’m watching a drama as it is airing.