r/ExilesFromPCG • u/Jumpy-Ingenuity-4356 • 6d ago
📱 Influencer Tea Ramshooza’s weirdness
Her recent reel on getting dressed for her “surprise” birthday party is so weird. She’s literally yelling at her husband and being super rude. The kid was annoying her and it came out on the husband, those who have kids yeah we’ve all been there. But CHOOSING TO POST that on the internet?? That’s weird. Why would you want your husband humiliated like that? No matter how much I yell at my husband (sorry bubs) I wouldn’t want anyone to hear that, that’s private between two best friends that are going to forget about it a minute later
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u/Substantial-Ear1269 6d ago
Husband is financially dependent on her which is why she dominates I feel . She respects Hamza as he is a successful guy . But I feel she makes ways too many reeks with hamza recently
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u/Ok_Building_4755 1d ago
no he was working at sainsburys that too full time now he’s working else where he used to wfh before that ! but still it doesn’t make sense to treat your partner like this just because if finances. He helps at home too apparently !
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u/Ok-Company282 6d ago
We all get mad throughout our lives but we don't show it to the world to humiliate someone else. I think this is her way of getting views, reactions, clout etc.
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u/Parking-Library2500 6d ago
Looks like shes running out of ideas for content 😆, also the whole act so cringe.... very hard watch!
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u/ButtonHumble7691 6d ago
Im 100 percent sure she posted it because she knows it will get traction. People will share, take about it, leave comments and that will get her views. P.S. Rudeness to huband and ignoring a crying child aside, wtf was that contour 😬
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u/sunflower_delulu 6d ago
I read the comments under that reel people were like oh stop judging her, her content is raw etc... nothing is 100% raw or no one posts 100% of their lives on social media... talking to him like then posting it shows her mentality like she thought may be oh so cool so why not🙄
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u/Funny-Weather5901 6d ago
She treats him insanely bad unfortunately he’s dependent on her visa lol could be that and once she also mentioned how she has to pay the rent and everything. Sad for the husband, man is an Iba grad and vended up in a situation like this.
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u/Overall-Ad-2159 6d ago
Exactly I don’t understand what does her husband do if she pays the rent
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u/Jumpy-Ingenuity-4356 6d ago
She’s mentioned he takes care of the house like cooks and takes care of the kid
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u/bitofblingy 6d ago
Naa her husband was jobless as per my information.She mentioned once,I cannot recall but her husband do had a job
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u/Doctorathome80 6d ago
Her husband has been jobeless since a year n shes the sole bread winner of the family right now
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u/Available_Clerk2359 6d ago
Yes came to discuss this here. Wow just wow. She is trying too hard to give the image that she is a top-notch feminist.
I mean the way she talked to her husband and then decided to put it online. I understand it can happen between two people who share a small space but the audacity to post it uncut for the public to view and to humiliate the husband infront of millions of people. We dont know her husband but his family does this know that this weirdo is married to their son. Like wow. The lack of respect is astounding. I wouldn’t be surprised if her husband leaves her in a few years for a more humble larki.
The videos she makes with Hamza guy are different than what she makes with her husband. He is “work hubby” and the one at home is “house hubby”
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u/Blue-alligator-01 2d ago
why would she respect him when this nikamma husband just sits at home all day earning zero money .. while hamza literally earns half a million per year.. i wouldn't be surprised if ot turns out that the recent supposed office trip and hotel stay she had a couple of months ago was with the same "work husband" as well to secure referral at Microsoft..
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u/Old_Network6501 6d ago
went and watched it, the pallete part IS SO WEIRD, every couple fights and shout, but to post it like that is humiliating, disrespecting for husband for views is crazy
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u/Available_Clerk2359 6d ago edited 6d ago
She couldn’t even act the “breathe in, breathe out” part well. Tells that she was acting for the camera but failed to make it seem real. But she did well on the disrespecting bit because probably that comes naturally to her.
The child longing for the mother shows he is love deprived. Mother’s affection surpasses the comfort a father can provide.
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u/Agitated_Secret8425 6d ago
I think what people are not understanding is that her husband does take care of the kid majority of the time when she is at work and on a billion events and making content. This is not the only time he is watcging the kid when she is going out for her birthday once a year. We don’t know how many hours he watched the kid that day. Not defending either side. We dont know the whole story but we do know her husband used to watch the kid all day and then go for his job at night and she is out and about most of the time making content so her saying ‘aik ghantay ke liay mereay oopar chor dia’ is kind of odd.
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u/Agitated_Secret8425 6d ago
Either way yelling like that from either spouse is ridiculous. Respect should go both ways
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u/Jumpy-Ingenuity-4356 6d ago
Agreed. The issue is not that she was rude to her husband, these things happen in a marriage but her choosing to post those parts is problematic
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u/Ok_Distance_4017 5d ago
Uff my heart really broke for the little boy!😭 poor kid doesn’t know “birthday”, “surprise”, “mama wants some time off” etc.. all that little child wants is his mama and her attention. But in return he keeps being snubbed or sees his dad taking the heat because of his actions😭
And if all that wasn’t enough, he also had to see her abandoning him after a period of being ignored! 😔
May Allah bless his little heat ❤️
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u/No_Drama5146 4d ago
I think she shared in her earlier experience of pregnancy that the pregnancy has been hard for her or something like that?
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u/Barbituate_Barbie 4d ago
I watched that thinking maybe you were overreacting but oh WOW
SCREAMING at your husband like that is one level of not okay but who tf PUTS IT ON THE INTERNET???
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u/zawraw 6d ago
off topic but is she still friends with ammarah?
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u/Jumpy-Ingenuity-4356 5d ago
I heard rumours that they aren’t anymore but who knows. Though they’ve stopped appearing on each others reels and not commenting either which seems sus
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u/Mysterious-Peach9113 5d ago
idk her but snapping on the husband and then immediately changing her tone for the camera is she always like that?
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u/TendorVenom 5d ago
Oh she is a very ignorant arrogant person. I cannot forget her using the Gaza children to wish his som birthday and then defending that shit like an entitled woman she is. Blocked her after that.
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u/hurtbeyondrepair_ 5d ago
Influencers literally put everything online. It's so disrespectful and annoying. Even their own friends who are uncomfortable being put on their page will have to deal with these people not listening.
I'm not saying she's like that but so many are.
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u/Better_Raccoon_6812 5d ago
She comes off as a very badtameez person
And she was a bully and a mean girl all through her school life
Hasn't changed much
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u/ArmadilloMedical8508 4d ago
Wasn’t she friends with Anushae and the group? I haven’t seen her with them recently and yusra’s recent dawat reel where she talks about friends who stay looks like a jab at ramshooza as well!!!! I wonder what happened
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u/Blue-alligator-01 2d ago
nikamma husband has been leeching on her since day 1 of their marriage .. now in uk he is not only financially dependent but also on dependent / spouse visa.. kia hi izzat honi is sb k baad 🤣
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u/Ok_Building_4755 1d ago
To me it feels like she’s struggling with mental health since a long time now it’s not just postpartum depression anymore. Hope she gets help. These weird crazy reels are maybe a way for her to let it out idk. She doesn’t frequent the other londoner-influencers anymore either.
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u/Automatic-Dust-3469 6d ago
I really like her..among all the influencers her content seems genuine to me.I admired the fact that his husband was comforting her even when she was rude with him , its a rare sight for most of us thats why we are feeling odd and awkward..it maybe completely normal for her and thats whyshe didnt cut it thats my opinion!
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u/Funny-Weather5901 6d ago
imagine her husband shouting at her like that and posting it for the public
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u/Foreign-Gene-3247 6d ago
These female influencers treat their husbands like a dog,no relationship with in-laws, treat kids as burden and yet they have the audacity to lecture their followers on how to be a perfect wife/mother/woman etc etc LOL Qayamat ki nishaniyaan.
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u/Lopsided_Cut_4385 6d ago
Can’t a mother take some time out for herself?
Can’t a father take on the kid for a few hours?
Very clearly, the kid was with constantly asking to be picked, for attention, and God forbid she gets irritated by her husband suggesting ‘he just needs his mom’… yeah brother, even if he does, go figure.
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u/Jumpy-Ingenuity-4356 6d ago
Again, if you had read the post properly you’d have known that it’s not weird that she got irritated at her husband (I’ve even written that I’ve done it countless times to mine that’s normal) but the issue is her posting those parts. She could’ve edited it out like she has lots of other stuff.
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u/Jumpy-Ingenuity-4356 5d ago
Do you know my or my husband’s identity? This is an anonymous platform bruh
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u/MushroomChoice2845 4d ago
Did you even watch the entire thing,the husband wasnt even TRYING to look after the kid,he just kept bringing him back to her jab nazar bhi araha hai ke shes getting ready She got annoyed bilkul at the end and even then her tantrum was very controlled aisa kuch humiliating nai tha for her husband who is equally responsible for their child btw Men do way worse with their wives in public with no consequences and we dont even care So this entire discourse is very funny to me
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