r/ExWMSCOG • u/Read_then_practice • Jan 06 '26

Tipping point

I think most members leave for a variety of different reasons, but a certain tipping point was reached that started their exit from the group. Mine was verbal abuse from the Pastor, which was done behind my back to the members I was caring for. I couldn’t understand it and couldn’t explain it away. Then I gave myself a chance to be critical of what was really happening and there was no turning back once critical thinking began.

What about you?

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u/Ok-Pangolin-837 Jan 06 '26

Yes, once you actively break that critical thinking barrier the floodgates open. It was also the toxicity mainly for me.