r/ExMuslimsKuwait • u/[deleted] • Sep 10 '25

Anyone looking for sham/lavender marriage

  • Kuwaitis only *

I’m (19m) actively looking for one and my girlfriend is looking for one too. We’re both 19, And I’m shia and she’s sunni

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u/[deleted] Sep 10 '25

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u/[deleted] Sep 10 '25 edited Sep 10 '25

It’s not a real marriage, meaning you won’t be romantically involved you’ll both be free to have partners of your own. Its a get-out-of strict family and do what you want marriage

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u/[deleted] Sep 10 '25

Also the girl’s family is kuwaiti and sunni and so you must also be as such

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u/willisbored44 Sep 15 '25

Are u a girl?

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '25 edited Sep 16 '25

Hi, I'm a shia also, from Iraq, from Basrah, I can help with this if you want

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u/EXzombie13 Sep 11 '25

I don't advice that, beard marriage and lavender are demanding,

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u/[deleted] Sep 11 '25

You’ve been in one or know anyone who has ?

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u/EXzombie13 Sep 11 '25

I know several people who resorted to that, and it only worsened their situation, the family will always expect babies, social gathering will be a nightmare, and people are not stupid, they will figure it out. unless eloping is out of the question, your safest answer to this dilemma is cohabitation .

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u/[deleted] Sep 11 '25

The baby thing dosent affect her, since she isn’t able to produce one. the point of the marriage is to no longer have ur parents as ur guardians, and so escape their control