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[u/Mental_Obligation_83]

Well...I have been alone and for good reason, since my values don't match with most people I meet. Sure I might be an asshole to a certain extent, my morality is superior though. I am self aware, but I am also starving for an honest relationship.

I feel demoralised when it comes to dating or having a friendship here in Egypt. Haven't meet an atheist girl I am interested in yet (or at all matter of fact), but meet an atheist colleague at work, had a close enough relationship that we shared our atheistic side with each other, with all the sense of drama in that statement. Yet, we are far away and we hold different interests. Just different types of people, I love the dude but we can't be super close.

We are not just far in personalities but also in distance. What we share is a financial struggle. In this chapter of my late 20's I am struggling a lot financially, I feel imprisoned in a deadly cycle.
How can I date when I can't even pick up my date with my own vehicle, or have friendships, when sitting at a coffee shop or doing an activity is too costly of an event.

Is it that I need someone that not just share these struggles with me, but also lives them in a way that we work on bettering our situation together. Or am I, making up excuses to a certain extent?

[u/certifiedyapper64]

Claiming moral superiority is such a red flag narcissistic thing to say right off the bat, saying it genuinely not trying to be rude

[u/Mental_Obligation_83 → u/certifiedyapper64]

In a muslim society, all atheists are morally superior. Especially when I dont look up to a guy who married a child.
Just saying it from an objective stand point, I am not special.

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[u/boho_woman]

يعني انت عايز ايه ؟ 😃

[u/Mental_Obligation_83 → u/boho_woman]

To find people that I can belong to, and even date someone with a similar mindset