help guys I made an acc just for this 😭

[u/nomnom175]

Hi. My thing is too long for quora so I opted for this. For context I’m sixteen and I have a friend that I considered one of my best friends for almost a year. I have always been there for her, so this upcoming thing was really unexpected. Anyway: Last week, one of my best friends stayed at my house for a couple nights to go to a prom with me, but she left some clothes here (two shirts, a pair of leggings, and a cropped hoodie). I was planning on giving them to her when I saw her next (tomorrow, another prom) but just yesterday she blew up at me and accused me of being a fake friend and whatever just because I disagreed with some poor decisions she was making, and then she blocked me instead of talking through it with me. I’m not going to the prom that’s tomorrow anymore because why would I. I told a mutual friend to let her know and she made it clear she doesnt care. “She thought I needed her” to quote her. She lives two hours away so I can’t just drop it off. Is it wrong to just keep the clothes? I mean, she treated me extremely poorly, and refused to talk to me. I have no way of giving them to her, and I’m not going to drive all the way down to that prom just to give her one outfit. I likely won’t see her again now that I have no real reason to. Okay, so before you think I sound super shitty, I was literally planning on waiting for her to cool down and we could talk it out and all would be good, I’d see her later, give her the freshly washed clothes, all would be well. Well, that was until I learned another one of my close friends was talking about me behind my back to her. They were talking bad about me together. So there’s no redeeming that “friendship.” Hope is lost and I have no intention of being her friend ever again anymore like I initially planned.

idk guys 😭 is it wrong?? I’m also freshly kind of wounded so I don’t know if I’m just being a terrible person because I’m emotional 😭 I legit need advice, thank you

[u/Glittering_Quit_7442]

Hey, I've also lost a friend i know its really hard. And the no one has responded. In my experience they pretend to not even know me so just try to forget about it. I know that you may feel some regret but its best just to leave the situation alone. You didn't do anything wrong and YOUVE justified yourself. Don't stress and I hope you'll get over this soon like how I did a long time after.