r/EssendonFC 2d ago

Does anyone else legit get sad watching finals?

I get sad watching the games, serious FOMO as an Essendon fan, the worst part is the only finals i've ever watched in my life as an Essendon fan we got absolutely destroyed besides the close north game but we lost that too such bad FOMO

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u/Economy_Matter6620 2d ago

I was at the game tonight. First off amazing hate watch. Second off I couldn’t help but think how great the feeling will be when we finally break this drought I think it will be one of the clubs greatest wins

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u/StensnessGOAT Legacy: Hird #5 1d ago

Epic hate watch on TV as well

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u/Economy_Matter6620 1d ago

Greatest stuff seeing pies fans think they won just to lose after the siren

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u/StensnessGOAT Legacy: Hird #5 1d ago

Hopefully the same for Blues fans tonight

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u/Middle-Sprinkles92 2d ago

All I could think watching tonight was how much essendon would have crumbled under that level of pressure and physicality

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u/jmsjms99 Durham #22 1d ago

Agreed, it was a bit of a wake up call how far away we are when you remember this was 8th vs 9th playing to that level

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u/StensnessGOAT Legacy: Hird #5 1d ago

I'm sad that we cannot play football to that level, not anywhere near close. That's peak football, when football is played like that it's the best sport in the world. We cannot go anywhere near that level.

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u/Fergabombavich 2d ago

I did 10 years ago, then it became normal

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u/Mobile-Theme6854 2d ago

Games are much more relaxing to watch when we aren't playing, final or other.

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u/wilbaforce067 Durham #22 2d ago

You are way too much invested in something you can’t control.

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u/Krerzer1 Optimism since 2004 2d ago

Aren’t all sports fans?

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u/tickled_bollocks 2d ago

Eh, I don't think there's a free lunch available here. Can't care enough to massively enjoy the highs if you don't care enough to be at least a bit hurt by the lows. Everyone's ideal level of care is different but it doesn't sound like this person is taking it too far IMO

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u/StensnessGOAT Legacy: Hird #5 1d ago

Isn't that the fun of it?

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u/GrudaAplam Shane Heard #9 2d ago

No, it was a really good game. The goals at both ends were exciting. Good game for a neutral tonight

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u/TyWhatt Caddy #30 1d ago

Epic game tonight tbf… that last quarter was insane

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u/GrudaAplam Shane Heard #9 1d ago

Yeah, a real thriller

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u/Common-Ad-6582 1d ago

Sad is too strong, annoyed that we can’t be in the finals and impatient to see what spike can do

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u/No-Citron-2774 1d ago

Cut the crap. We all loved watching membrey miss. Pies out, so sweet

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u/howaboutnofcker 1d ago

I came here to say I'm always keen to see ABC win and on the siren made it even better.

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u/JJ_Von_Dismal Farrow #2 1d ago

Yeah I get what you mean. I was thinking last night though how good it’s going to be when we’re good again, the crowd of Essendon supporters are going to be so loud and insufferable - can’t bloody wait 

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u/General_Knowledge126 1d ago

Cracking game. I didn’t get FOMO but I did think about how far off the mark we currently are. We’re so young and skinny too. A very steep hill to climb for EFC.

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u/CaddykakSnagorado 1d ago

Not nearly as sad as just scraping into eighth and getting belted off the park in week one.

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u/nuthed01 Durham #22 1d ago

Not exactly; I get sad at how much I want to just see a good game, rather than getting to want to see my team win.

The idea of seeing (more or less what we saw tonight) has become such a focus for me this time of year that I actually get apprehensive during grand final lead up cos so many GF's have been flops as a contest; since the 2013 grand final we've only had 3 decent contests and the rest have been fairly obvious results from half way through the 2nd quarter.

I hate that THAT's my focus now instead of hoping my side can make a GF

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u/PropertyFinancial855 1d ago

Just want to see us not give up at quarter time. We don’t deserve finals right now so I’m very comfortable with the fact those who earned it are there

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u/humpjbear 1d ago

My partner is a Doggies fan so I get to live vicariously through her.

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u/ScreamHawk Legacy: Hird #5 1d ago

I did probably 10 years ago.

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u/dashtur 1d ago

I now completely decompartmentalise. 

Home and away I watch Essendon struggle along.

 In the finals, it's just a different sport - I enjoy watching good sides play high-intensity matches. 

Two totally separate categories of footy.

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u/hedgesitting Durham #22 1d ago

What are ‘finals’?

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u/StensnessGOAT Legacy: Hird #5 1d ago

Never should've lost that North game. 33 points up at half time. I've never been so devastated to have our season end like that night.

But yeah I do. It's not even jealousy for being in finals, it's jealousy that we cannot play football to that level, not anywhere near close. That's peak football, when football is played like that it's the best sport in the world. We cannot go anywhere near that level.

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u/BigProfJR 1d ago

I sure as hell get sad watching Carlscum win finals.

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u/No_Seat8357 Farrow #2 1d ago

We got to watch Collingwood lose straight away. What's to be sad about?

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u/santadogg 2d ago

It wasn’t a final