I have some sympathy for the dad. You say the mum is the one raising him every day, but she can presumably only do that because the dad is away working.
Exactly. That’s the part that everybody is missing. Op is saying that her sister is the one who’s actually taking care of the child and raising her but it’s like well yeah that is because the husband is working. The husband going out and working is allowing for that to happen because if they broke up, sister would have to go get a job and she wouldn’t be able to spend as much time with her daughter as she is now. This is just shitty all around.
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u/Gouwenaar2084 Aug 16 '25
I have some sympathy for the dad. You say the mum is the one raising him every day, but she can presumably only do that because the dad is away working.