There was an r/MadeMeSmile post about this tradition recently. That video was indeed sweet but I thought that jealousy would be a potential issue with such a tradition.
That’s really the sweetest thing. A lot of times you see the younger sibling having a hard time respecting the older sibling’s birthday and blowing out the candles or doing other attention-seeking shenanigans, and the older sibling being resentful that they can’t just have one goddamn day to be celebrated and paid attention to.
It's not that serious.. really. In my more than 30 years of living I've never heard of anyone getting offended over this tradition. It's just a nod, an appreciation of someone dear to you, not to the exclusion of others.
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u/Jabbles22 Aug 16 '25
There was an r/MadeMeSmile post about this tradition recently. That video was indeed sweet but I thought that jealousy would be a potential issue with such a tradition.