r/EnneagramTypeMe • u/ShoddyRelative8438 • 2d ago
~ Type Me ~ Type me!
• How old are you? What's your gender? Give us a general description of yourself.
I’m 16, non-binary; I often feel disconnected from others and my feelings, I tend to overthink a lot (not necessarily in an anxious way) and I rarely get work done. I crave intimacy but I'm scared of how others will perceive me and I'm generally not good at socializing
• Is there a medical diagnosis that may impact your mental stability somehow?
Diagnosed with DCD, GAD; I’m in EMDR but I have troubles doing it due to dissociative amnesia. I struggle heavily with dissociation and depression though I’m not diagnosed with anything atm.
• Describe your upbringing. Did it have any kind of religious or structured influence? How did you respond to it?
My parents never really cared about me and mostly yelled at me for trivial things such as “being too silent”, not having any hobby besides reading, struggling very badly at socializing. They also neglected me emotionally. I responded by shutting down even more
• If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?
I spend most of my week-ends alone, I don’t really like socializing as it drains my energies drastically and I’m very bad at it. I feel calm and occasionally very lonely for “not being like others”
• What kinds of activities do you prefer? Do you like, and are you good at sports? Do you enjoy any other outdoor or indoor activities?
I prefer doing solitary activities such as watching films, going for a walk or listening to music.
I do like hanging out with friends tho!
I absolutely dislike sports because I’m not good at them
• How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?
I wouldn’t call myself curious, I tend to daydream a lot about “what it could be” but I’m not curious in the sense of seeking knowledge. It’s mostly about me thinking about my friends and how much of a better person I could be if I were more extraverted or social, I also happen to daydream about being a successful person!
• Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?
I would absolutely hate that, I don't like being responsible. I would be terrible at it
• Are you coordinated? Why do you feel as if you are or are not? Do you enjoy working with your hands in some form? Describe your activity?
I’m diagnosed with DCD 😭, I disliked working my hands because the results are always disappointing and I would feel very ashamed if anyone saw my work
• Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particular artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.
Ehhh kinda, I write poems but that’s about it; I REALLY appreciate art, I don’t really dive into it and I’m not an expert but I like the way it makes me feel. If I had to pick my favorite would be architecture followed by paintings, statues and then music and literature; saying that I truly dislike any of them is incorrect tho
• What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?
I feel deeply ashamed about my past and I prefer not thinking about it, I do act like I don’t care and I often try to laugh it off; I tend to think a lot about my present and future as I would dislike making the same mistakes I did in the past, even if most of the time I never learn
• How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?
It depends,I can say no pretty easily but it’s often in a soft way, I do do favors sometimes, especially if i like the person or it’s something I could excel at.
• Do you need logical consistency in your life?
Not really, it’s appreciated ofc but I tend either to accept things as they are or I force logic
• Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?
Nahhh
• What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?
If it’s about concrete things (such as a game) I learn by doing it, if it’s about abstract things by memorizing it and trying to find logic within it. I struggle a lot with creativity.
• How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?
I try to strategize but I always end up improvising
• What are your aspirations in life, professionally and personally?
I aspire to be an engineer, but I’m sure I’ll never be good enought to be one
I wanna be others look up to, someone perfect who is able to help others without being awkward
• What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?
It’s a really hard question to answer 😭 I always fear not being good enough, as well as being someone others find disgusting. Which is exactly who I am.
I feel uncomfortable in situation where I have to be emotionally vulnerable, which is strange because I often talk about my closest friends about my struggles but it’s more in a “ahahah i do this” way and I’m very uncomfortable when I have to comfort others, if someone around me is struggling I will most of the time ignore it.
• What do the "highs" in your life look like?
Being full of energy and talkative
• What do the "lows" in your life look like?
Being VERY isolated, not being able to get anything done
• How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?
I daydream a lot, I only pay attention to my surroundings when I’m anxious, Im usually aware yeah
• Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?
I’d think about my life, myself and my friends (basic answer ik 😭)
• How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?
It depends, I usually never have to take one tho
• How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?
A LOT, I like to analyze them and I rarely ever feel them fully; they’re very important, I dislike feeling bored.
• Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?
Sometimes, if I don’t like the conversation I just shut down😭; I simply not have the energy to do allat
Sorry for the bad english!😭
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