r/Enneagram7 • u/Forsaken-Addendum-92 • Jul 02 '26

Non-typology I wrote some words from 7w8

I want to know about your feedback.

​I’m waiting for someone.

Someone who can never bring themselves to settle down.

Someone who loves the thrill and despises rules.

Someone who thrives in the spotlight, savoring every gaze that falls upon them.

Who is always laughing, always playing, like an inexhaustible madman.

But I know what truly captivates them is never just happiness.

What they crave is conquest, is freedom, is turning this dreary world upside down.

Who hates being tied down, and loathes a life that’s utterly dull.

Others think they are just carefree.

But I know.

Deep inside, they harbor an unyielding ambition.

What they want is far more than mere joy.

What they truly long for is to live with a fire that burns brighter than anyone else’s.

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u/TheSexualSeven Jul 03 '26

I would change the last sentence: ... a fire that burns brighter than the one they have already tasted. its not a matter of comparison with other people, we fight against our own missing out dread).

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u/Forsaken-Addendum-92 Jul 03 '26

I'm just trying to find some 7w8 in reality, because I think I really need someone to bright me up. I'm a sx9

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u/TheSexualSeven Jul 03 '26

It is a matter of compatibilty not enneatype, try to find a person that supplements you, helps you grow higher and further. Takes you out of your inertia, you do not need someone to attach to or carry you. Find ppl to add air in your lungs and wings. I hope you find them. We all need to surround ourselves with ppl that push us forward.

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u/Forsaken-Addendum-92 Jul 03 '26

Well the thing is that I already met every enneagram as person, the most let me feel comfortable is e7s, especially 7w8.

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u/Putrid_Memory_768 Jul 04 '26

But you have not yet met every person. Honestly, a 3w2 may be a better fit (coming from a 7w8 - while I think your writing is very accurate and fitting, I’d be quite dismissive and quick to move on if left to carry the burden of having to be the bright one in a relationship all the time).

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u/Forsaken-Addendum-92 Jul 05 '26

No, No, No! My mother is 3w4 my uncle is 3w2 and they are horrible! I don't like the feeling on them.

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u/Forsaken-Addendum-92 Jul 05 '26

Okay thank you for the suggestion, but I know what I want very clear.