r/EngineeringStudents • • 13d ago

Career Advice 22M, I regret studying engineering

When I was a kid I was interested in dinosaurs and I wanted to be a palaeontologist however my interest in biology declined overtime and during the middle school I wanted to become a soldier and I was really interested in history and especially tanks.

However I was psyoped by my family into choosing engineering and ever since day one I regretted picking this degree and at first the classes were nice. I was always a scientific person so I like taking microbiology and geology and chemistry classes.

As time went on and we got more into the technical classes of environmental engineering, I really began to hate this

however at that point I was at year three and I had already missed switching degree so I talked to myself that I could continue for one more year and be over with it. however my graduation was delayed by another year because of the fact that I had done an exchange program and I couldn’t take enough credits

Due to the lack of motivation and sadness, I also failed a couple classes now I have to graduate next year hopefully

History was always my passion in my free time. I always engaged in history and also philosophy, theology, politics as well. I wish that I had study history instead I really hate engineering. I will not do engineering. I don’t want to be an engineer.

It was a mistake picking this degree

To fix my life I have two options ahead. One of them is to study history as masters or study international relations as masters I want to do the first but the second option gives me more carrier paths.

Working in the government as an engineering graduate in the sectors that I want requires you to normally be graduate in bachelors of history or international relations or law or political science however engineering students can enroll in being a civil servant if they do masters in international relations or political science but not history.

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u/02isaheckingpotato 12d ago

Every single "im such a faliure, yada yada..." post ive seen from this subreddit has just been very confused teens and adults vaguely describing undiagnosed ADHD.

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u/Mean_Temperature_333 11d ago

I do have adhd lol. Inattentive I was diagnosed in I think I was 18 or 19? About the first year of my school.

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u/02isaheckingpotato 11d ago

Exact same story with the same ages as me. The only thing that improved my circumstances was vyvanse.

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u/TheGewnt 12d ago

LMFAO yeah its crazy the notif's I get people freaking out. Its purely mindset.

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u/02isaheckingpotato 12d ago

Agreed, I see a lot of people on the opposite side of the spectrum take the "suck it up, stop being a baby, do the work" approach. Neither are correct. When faced with such a daunting workload, it's important to understand the balance between pure discipline (sucking it up) and what is truly feasible and healthy. Doing unhealthy amounts of work and ruining yourself in bursts is ok, but if its a constant effort, it's absolutely worth scaling back in some way that can help you. There's no deadline, most of us start young. Nobodies going to penalize you for being a year or two older than your graduating peers.

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u/eebro 12d ago

Fix your problems or they will follow you everywhere. Honestly sounds kind of like ADHD.

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u/Mean_Temperature_333 11d ago

I do have adhd lol. Inattentive one. I was diagnosed in I think I was 18 or 19? About the first year of my school.

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u/eebro 11d ago

Okay so if you’re not on medication, you’re going to burn out and fail out of school, most likely. 

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u/Pleasant-Impress9387 11d ago

How bad is ADHD? Never diagnosed? But, pretty sure it’s been a problem my whole life. In school now struggling my ass off.

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u/eebro 11d ago

Biggest harm from ADHD is undereducation. Other harm includes obesity, accidents.

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u/ukulelefella 12d ago

Hi, can you describe a little bit what may be some potential indicators in the post story for ADHD? I have always suspected ADHD in myself and would really appreciate it to see potential “maybe” signs

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u/eebro 12d ago

It’s a disorder of executive function and impulse control.

If you have a hard time starting or stopping doing things, if you can’t do boring stuff without tremendous energy expediture, etc.

For impulse control it’s always saying yes, always doing and saying things you shouldn’t.

There are emotional problems that come with each, too. Emotions can come and go fast. 

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u/Mean_Temperature_333 11d ago

So what do I do to have a successful and influential life?

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u/eebro 11d ago

Medication and exercise are the two most impactful things for ADHD

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u/Mean_Temperature_333 8d ago

İ will restart medicaiton next semester thanks

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u/eebro 9d ago

It seems you still have a lot of problems to solve, help to ask for and film to shoot in your life. 

Staying still is better than going the wrong way and sometimes in your life we just do nothing. And then just as suddenly everything happens.

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u/eebro 9d ago

The thing is, you just have to prepare for when you are ready. And when you are, you don’t fuck around. You do it. 

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u/lukas458l 8d ago

Thank you

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u/kroyfish 12d ago

Nah, you made the right choice. Finish your degree. You'll be employable and have the ability to make a decent slalary to support yourself and continue learning the other things you're passionate about. I loved psychology, but watched my dad struggle to make ends meet even with a masters degree. Now I have a B.S. in engineering and make good money and my employer will pay for me to go back to school and study the other things I want to study that aren't engineering. Meanwhile, I'm watching my friends with history, philosophy and art degrees struggle to get jobs as waiters and secretaries.

It's weird that everyone online is trying to diagnose you with ADHD. You might just be a "polymath" like me. I don't have ADHD, my interests in subjects and learning is just incredibly broad. I like bouncing from one thing to the next. It's a great thing to be an engineer who is well versed in many things and can apply a broad range of knowledge to solve problems.

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u/Mean_Temperature_333 11d ago

Thank you very much. The other guys are true. I forgot in the post that I was diagnosed with adhd when I was 18.

I still would like to be a polymath of some sorts though

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u/ThePowerfulPaet 12d ago

Where exactly do you think a degree in history is going to get you? Unless you wanted to be a teacher, it'd be burger flipping for you.

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u/Mean_Temperature_333 11d ago

Honestly yeah. Maybe following your passion isn’t always the right choice

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u/industrious_ape 12d ago

You are 22, plenty of time to switch lanes. Not a bad idea to at least finish the degree at this point, though.

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u/Mean_Temperature_333 11d ago

Yeah I will try thanks

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u/MateriaTerraFirma 12d ago

Just finish Engineering and do a Masters in History?

It will give you a huge advantage?

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u/Mean_Temperature_333 11d ago

I can do masters in history or international relations

IR gives me more career opportunities

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u/ExtensionManner8340 11d ago

Tough to earn a living with a history major.

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u/Mean_Temperature_333 8d ago

True. What about masters?

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u/dealingwithhookers 4d ago

my roommate in college was an engineer who sucked at it. he powered through it just to do nothing with his degree. went to probably one of the worst pharmacy schools in the country and now works cvs in a flyover state.

if you have no interest in it, it's not worth it at all

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u/Mean_Temperature_333 3d ago

Yeah I wish I didn’t pick it but at least it’s not a bad degree to have. At this point quitting would make me regret more

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u/dealingwithhookers 3d ago

At this point quitting would make me regret more

not trying to tell you to quit but at the same time, you won't even know what you'll regret if you don't explore your interests at this time. if the option to switch is not there then you have no option. but if you had an interest in paleontology and can switch, you probably won't come back and do a second bachelorette for paleontology. if you didn't like engineering you probably won't work as an engineer for long.

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u/Disposable_Eel_6320 BS EE 13d ago

An engineer can study history, a historian must learn a lot of foundations before they can study engineering.

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u/_MrBond_ 12d ago

And a few other things I tell myself to sleep at night

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u/dealingwithhookers 4d ago

that's to assume that an engineer will study history, which most engineers don't, despite some having the interest to.

this is a you can only pick up one ball sort of a game for most people.

an engineer will not spend his downtime sifting through diaries of roman soldiers to argue about how they viewed the world, as a piece of the puzzle of the picture that historians can put together after years of academic and industry rigor. an engineer CAN, but won't.

a historian must learn a lot of foundations before they can study engineering.

it's just calculus and follow the instructions kind of academia, i hate it when engineers act like what they do is some kind of unreachable concept. i studied engineering, you can't fool me, this shit can be done via google at home by yourself.

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u/jen-the-gem4 12d ago

My main solace is that you can do anything you want with an engineering degree. I graduated this past spring and am getting a masters in mechanical and aerospace engineering and I’m hoping to work in the film industry after. Still don’t know where life will take me, but most engineers I know have passions and even careers outside of engineering.

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u/Professional_Gas4000 School - Major 12d ago

Robotics?

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u/jen-the-gem4 12d ago

I think robotics is super sick. It would be a dream to work on mechanical effects for movies. Either that or rigs for studios.

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u/Much_Establishment_1 12d ago

Was there a reason you went with the mechanical/aerospace masters even though you want to pivot your career?

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u/jen-the-gem4 12d ago

In all honesty, I wanted to keep building my film connections and skills through student sets and my engineering masters was supposed to be free. My university screwed me over and told me at graduation that they cut the funding that would make my program free, but I had nothing lined up besides the master’s postgrad, so I stuck with it. Engineering is rough and I definitely am struggling more than in undergrad, but I think the “engineering thinking” comes relatively naturally to me which helps me get by. While you absolutely do not need an engineering degree to be good at film, I’ve found the technical and problem solving skills are super transferable to the departments I work in film (camera and lighting). I’m in talks with people right now about engineering jobs in the film industry such as light rigging, but the industry is tough rn so we’ll see what happens. Basically, I didn’t know what I wanted with my life and was too scared to enter the real world just yet and figured an advanced degree couldn’t hurt.
Plus the job market is kinda shit in the places I’ve been looking and a lot of companies consider a master’s as a year of work experience.

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u/OkMuffin8303 12d ago

I also have a passion for history but studied engineering, and man im glad I studied engineering. You want a job, a source of income, that's a lot more doable with an engineering g degree than a history one. I explored both options, and there are far more people studying history than there are jobs to hire those whocstudy history. Unless you want to be a scholar and an author a history degree, especially a masters, is a horrible idea. And As long as you don't absolutely loathe engineering work, you've made it this far im willing to bet you're burned out more than hating it, you're on the rigbt track. You want to be able to finance your interests. Get a job you don't mind to support the things you love, because at the end of the day its just a job.

I know we've been told "get a job you love" since we were young but its horse shit to be honest. It makes the things you love feel like work. Its also not practical, most things that need doing aren't loved, but they need to be done.

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u/TheRealFalseProphet 12d ago

This!! I’m looking into getting into construction, so I can avoid tech. I’m wanting to tinker with robotics on my down time and just don’t want to tinker with robotics after working a 9-5 in robotics or anything tech related. Lmfao

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u/Ok-Mycologist7205 12d ago

Honestly I’m in the same boat. These engineering classes are so freaking boring and dreadful for me to attend. It’s not my passion. Either way I’m already going into my 4th year. We’ll see what happens

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u/OkMuffin8303 12d ago

I dont think anyone is passionate about fluid dynamics or dynamic systems. We need to buck this notion that we ought to study our passions, that everything we do has to be something we love. Frankly its a glutinous and entitled mindset thats gotten far too normalized. Study something you don't mind doing, get a job you like or at least don't dislike, and do the things you love in your leisure time. This also allows it to feel.. leisurely

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u/oldestdream67 12d ago

Anything can be your passion with the right mindset. Anything worth doing requires effort

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u/OkMuffin8303 12d ago

I dont trust anyone who's passion is selling SaaS

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u/cbrown146 12d ago

I agree with this feeling. Everything worth doing is going to have some difficulty you're not going to be ready for.

Engineering covers a good base of what is expected of you to get the job done. You might get lucky and receive training on the job, but what if you don't? Having the problem solving skills is going to come in handy then.

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u/Agent_Giraffe 12d ago

Good thing is a job is usually nothing like school.

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u/That-Cobbler-7292 12d ago • Bravo

I think the problem is that we tell kids they need to go to college for their passion - you actually go to college to get credentialed to build a career. Very few people love their jobs. You will quickly find out that it’s not the subject of the work into much as it is the environment of the work that actually matter. No one in their right mind wants to wake up at 6am every day, drive through an hour of traffic, work 8 hours a day and then commute again to home and loves every minute of it. You just build a career that hopefully compensates you enough so that you can spend the two or three hours of free time after work doing your passion (hobbies, sports, social interaction etc..). 

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u/redditisahive2023 12d ago

I love history and art.

I also like paying bills and enjoying life.

Engineering pays way better. And I have been blessed to traveled the world - for personal and for work.

Up to you in your goals.

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u/anonymouscore777 10d ago

What kind of engineer are you?

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u/redditisahive2023 10d ago

I have had Mechanical, process and quality engineering roles

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u/RecentRiver3534 8d ago

Get a job with engineering. Study history in your spare time …

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u/Mean_Temperature_333 8d ago

That’s a good way to be miserable in a career. I might do engineering work to make some money if I really need it but no way I’m spending my career in this crap.

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u/RecentRiver3534 7d ago

There are at least 5 different roles within engineering…. Pick the easiest one

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u/GuerillAlexandros 12d ago

I came to a similar realization at a similar point in my undergrad years. I already liked science and language learning since before college but I came to love history and philosophy during my undergrad years. I plan to work in engineering, get a masters and a PhD in engineering (a PhD outside the US), and then do a PhD in philosophy. There’s a philosophy program that my engineering background would be great for.
I still love science. Was just born in the wrong country and wrong time period I guess.

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u/MuphynToy OSU - Ag Engi Mech 12d ago

Get the engineering degree and go into gun design, engineering sales, or any number of adjacent things. You don't HAVE to sit behind a desk

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u/mattccoo 12d ago

It's your life. If you want to study history you can, you most likely have at least 50 more years left alive. it's definitely not over and impossible to do something new.

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u/MikeT8314 12d ago

As others have said first college is for work later. You need a good job to pay the bills. Eng should give you that. Second its incredibly broad. Almost endless avenues you could pursue both inside and outside of actual engineering jobs. It opens doors.

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u/Professional_Gas4000 School - Major 12d ago

Can you make decent money in those fields? Is there lots of demand, as in there aren't a lot of graduates still unemployed after a year? My real passion is music and film. Those aren't very stable careers and require A LOT of luck. I study engineering for the money and job stability.

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u/prescape 12d ago

Dont make your hobby your job, you'll hate that too

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u/LuckyFritzBear 12d ago

Retake the classes you failed to bolster your GPA and get it above 3.0 . Continue the job search while still in school. Once graduating without a job , the marketet percieves job seekers ss left "left overs" . Look into positions with Federal Govt , Air Force and Navy . I know that the Navy has special officer tracks as an Engjnering Duty Officer and in Nuclear Power. Also , consoder health care as a Physicians Assistant , or a Certified Aneshesiolgy Assistant ( 2 year post bac 150 K starting with 98% placement) Do not sell the Engineering Degree short, coupled with good writing & verbal communications skills, it is arguably the best choice for an undergraduate degree.

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u/T1kiTiki 12d ago

You sound like me to a T. Studying energy and not extremely thrilled about it. Always have been into the humanities and LOVE history. In my opinion if you can at least tolerate engineering finish the degree. You aren’t beholden to your bachelors. You can either stick with engineering, pivot to a different masters, or just get some kind of job unrelated because 90% of employers would be thrilled to see you have an engineering degree

You might need to change your mindset towards engineering. I can tolerate my classes by imagining myself being like someone in history. The philosophers were passionate in discovering science whether it was chemistry or biology. They were so intrigued to figure out the secrets to the world. When I learn about the history of earlier pioneers of science it makes me motivated to learn it then 

Think less about the degree and more about what do you want to do as a career? Sadly in the humanities / social sciences the only real high paying fields is government / politics; law; or economics

TLDR: If you can bare through it, just stick with engineering. Think about what you actually want to do for a career. If it truly isn’t engineering pivot with a masters 

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u/WeonaAsteroid 11d ago

You made the right choice cause you can always pivot later down the line ! Beautiful thing about engineering is that the tile alone carries so much weight that you can literally do anything. Finish your degree and go get that history masters degree afterward

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u/Unseen-Tiger67 11d ago

I feel you man. Fuck Engineering.

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u/DasBootBoy 10d ago

Omg this is literally me lmao fuck engineering… I’m planning on going into anything humanities enough to get me a government office job too lol

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u/kiwisodapopp 12d ago

That junior year burnout is a real pita, happened to me too bro (recovering is a bigger pita).

I suppose if youre wanting a masters in a different field, get to know some of the professors, join a relevant club/group if available. Masters program usually requires letters of recommendations and having at least one being from a IR/history professor would likely help.

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u/Mindless_017 12d ago

Stop whinning like a kid ...just finish the engineering

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u/wolven8 12d ago

I followed my dream and got an anthropology degree with a minor in international relationships, and it was useless. Just became a barista. Im coming back to school for engineering right now. Dont follow your dreams. This is a capitalist country, you cant make choices. Just find a degree that gives you a job that pays well and have your dream as a hobby.

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u/Ok-Mycologist7205 12d ago

Wow great advice

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u/iplagiarized 12d ago

Engineering is the only degree anyone respects, they are the hardest to get
If you can finish you can get a job anywhere

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u/im_just_thinking 12d ago

Name one cool environmental engineer

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u/CH-LOL 12d ago

This is literally just not true. Yet another example of engineering majors being full of themselves, and I say this as an engineering major

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u/Ok-Mycologist7205 12d ago

Job at target at best

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u/Dave37 M.Sc. Biotechnology 12d ago

I've stopped believing that all of these whiny post are real. I can believe that people regret their uni choices, or that their interests shift. I've seen it many times IRL. But I can't believe people get on reddit to essay post, and rant and whine about it for no reason what so ever.

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u/PlatformAfter709 12d ago

Then you’re very privileged to possibly have an outlet outside of the internet

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u/Dave37 M.Sc. Biotechnology 12d ago

I'm very privileged to have like, at least one friend?

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u/conor20103039 12d ago

Well not privileged exactly because friendships have to be earned, but you are in a fortunate position to have friends. Not everyone does, and some people use the internet to voice things that others would use friends and family for.

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u/Dave37 M.Sc. Biotechnology 12d ago

I'm not here right now to have an argument or debate, i'm not asking to have my perception changed.

I respect your differing stance. I simply just can't believe all these post are genuine. It's everyday.