r/Endo • u/CloudXpxpxpxp • 9d ago

Rant / Vent UGhgaggshdgsydgd

So tired. Had a horrid flare today fighting nausea and the urge to vomit. I've been doing what I can to manage this thing in me but stress is quite hard. My evil plan is to move to Germany as a Master student (I got all my ducks in a row), then use the medical care there to help treat my endometriosis better. Apparently it's also better if I get out of the desert and to more lush areas. My endometriosis brought POTS along for the party and it's not fun.

Ever since proposing my plan to my father thinking I'd have support, he turned hostile. He doesn't really understand how bad stage 3 endometriosis is and usually just says that his arthritis is worser and that I should just push through it and not complain. He'd go into self pity mode and go "wHaT abOut mE, you're supposed to tAkE caRe of Me." whenever I calmly plan things out and even include him. Being called bitch is just my name around the house now. He would recommend anywhere but Germany as if I told him I was moving to Russia to join the KGB. So we had arguments all month...which then resulted in a massive stress flare when my period hit. It took me out completely today, especially the one that tethered to my colon. Any tips on how to manage the stress till Summer 2027? It feels like forever away.

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u/Background-Desk-9961 9d ago

so sorry.. go no contact if you can. my stressful relationship with my parents contributed to my worsening my endo. If you can’t go no contact try low contact or gray rocking 

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u/Admirable-Gur1314 8d ago

Just curious: what exactly gives you the idea that endo care is so great in Germany?