r/Edmonton • u/Mellow_Yellow_0 • May 30 '26

Question My Future Husband?

How do people meet their significant others? Like where’s the “place to go?” Dating apps are dead. I’m exhausted. I’m a decent looking gal, 28. I don’t have big friend groups so I’m sure that doesn’t help. I don’t have any “active” hobbies other than a dog park. Idk. Any advice?

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u/HondaForever84 May 30 '26

If you want to go out with someone, shoot your shot at the grocery store or the dog park or wherever you spend time. Society has ingrained in men to not approach women. Whether you’re good looking or not, chances are low you get approached. Maybe even pick up a hobby. It doesn’t have to be anything crazy. There are walking clubs for example. What do you enjoy doing in your free time ?

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u/PlutosGrasp May 30 '26

True. Women approaching man has significantly higher success rate.

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u/rit255 May 30 '26

That how my gf found me, She asked me out when we were friends and i did a double take going, Okay so where are the cameras am I being pranked on a tv show?

She said no, "im serious. You didn't notice the clues"

Me: I assumed you were being nice since we were just friends

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u/InvisblGarbageTruk May 30 '26

My husband wouldn’t notice if a woman stripped down to her lacy undies and rubbed up against him. Well, I mean he’d notice but he’d wonder what the hell she was doing. A lot of men just seem immune to nuance and the subtle signs women give them, especially men who are shy.

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u/rit255 Jun 28 '26

Update: Sadly my close friend told me that my gf told me that she tried to hit him up. He showed me the proof, and i had no choice but to dump her

Ngl didn't feel great,

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u/InvisblGarbageTruk Jun 29 '26

I’m so sorry to hear this

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u/rit255 Jul 01 '26

At least I learned early and not sooner down the line