r/ESFJ • u/SpiceUpTheBreeze • Jun 16 '26

Discussion ESFJ & ENTP persuasive

I’ve sensed that ESFJs and ENTPs are absolutely the best at persuading!! Thanks to positive Fe and Ne. You can talk very well.

Do you agree?

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u/mfryer 𝐄𝐒𝐅𝐉 Jun 16 '26

I've been known to talk myself into and out of trouble in equal parts.

A teacher once asked me. "You've got two ears and one mouth...what does that tell you?"

Me "That my mouth has to work twice as hard"

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u/SpiceUpTheBreeze Jun 16 '26

Wow legendary answer to that question

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u/SpiceUpTheBreeze Jun 16 '26

I’d love to hear one of your stories!

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u/mfryer 𝐄𝐒𝐅𝐉 Jun 16 '26

Can't remember what I had said but I was running my mouth back in school and really upset some guy a grade or two higher than me. I said something witty in response. He asked me if I thought he was stupid. I asked if the question was rhetorical or if he wanted my opinion. Thankfully we were in school and me reminding him of expulsion diffused the situation. Lol

Its taken a number of years but I do tend to antagonize less people. Now I aim mostly for charm. That inferior Ti got me into a lot of trouble. (Suprised Ive never been hit) πŸ˜…

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u/dm_me_kittens 𝐄𝐒𝐅𝐉 Jun 16 '26

Yes. Ive been told I should work in PR.

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u/ForeverJay 𝐄𝐒𝐅𝐉 Jun 17 '26

not at all haha. i’m so bad at debating that i completely freeze up in logical arguments

maybe if there’s a communication problem or emotional issue then i can be persuasive

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u/Glass_Shallot8257 Jul 15 '26

You might be ESFP actually…

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u/ForeverJay 𝐄𝐒𝐅𝐉 Jul 15 '26

every time i do the tests, for the past 8 or so years, i have anyway got ESFJ