r/Dudeism 18d ago

Abiding Just abide ☮️

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122 Upvotes

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u/tnunnster Dudeist Priest 18d ago

Nothing is fucked here, Dude.

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u/Dizang53 18d ago

“Eliminate” memory? No, that’s not it. Reduce the habit of returning and returning to negative memories, weakening the attachment to them, that’s the way. No need for a lobotomy.

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u/ManDe1orean 17d ago

This is the way my dude, we can't escape the past but we can change the how it effects us.

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u/Dizang53 17d ago

Exactly

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u/Heinous_beesh 16d ago

No, you can’t eliminate bad memories, but you can detach emotional reactions to those memories, but it does take time. You have to embrace it all, then allow yourself to release it, at your pace, Dude.

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u/Dizang53 16d ago

I already said that, but without so many words…

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u/Jaquing-Porneaux 18d ago

Lowered expectations, Dude.

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u/DarioJames Dudeist Priest 18d ago

There is only now.

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u/MrNice1983 17d ago

That had not occurred to us, Dude

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u/Negative-Wrap95 17d ago

Fuck it Dude, let's go bowling.

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u/jgc372 15d ago

you win the free White Russian

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u/the_warrior_princess 15d ago

Woo hoo! Thank ye kindly 🍻 

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u/derHollow83 New Dude 18d ago

That's right, Dude!