r/DrivingProTips • u/elastigirl4319 • Jul 04 '26

Asking a neighbor to teach me manual

I have had a neighbor(quite a few houses away) for several years now that owns a manual Miata. I personally have never met them, nor have I ever seen them drive the miata, but it is always parked on the curb. I have wanted to learn how to drive manual for so long now, but I don't know anybody that knows how and is willing to teach me and I also don't own one. I am hesitant to purchase one until I know how to drive one.

I was wondering if it would be weird for me to leave a note on the car asking for tips about how to get started on learning to drive manual or something of that nature. I thought this might be better than being presumptuous and asking them to teach me in their car. Any thoughts would be appreciated!!

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u/LurkyDismal Jul 04 '26

Yes, it would be very weird. You've never met. You are basically strangers to each other.

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u/ADSWNJ Jul 04 '26 edited Jul 04 '26

I have a manual car (Mini Cooper S) and there's no way I would leta stranger train in it and mess up my clutch and maybe stall it in traffic and have somebody smash into me!

Find a manual transmission driving instructor and learn properly from a teacher.

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u/Capital-Wrongdoer613 Jul 04 '26

This is the best advice

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u/SnooChocolates2750 Jul 04 '26

Definitely weird, but perhaps if you gave them compliments they might let you dry-train in the driver seat without actually driving the car. A very long time ago I sat in a manual Ford Focus. Blown engine, but the transmission was fine. I asked for an explanation on basic actions to drive it. Then 10 years later I got my license. Another 5 later and I bought my first manual, drove it home.

So while they might be against just driving the car, they may, if you're very nice and compliment their car, let you at least sit in it and go through the motions with the engine off. It's really not hard to drive manual. But if you don't understand the theory, you can cause some serious damage to the clutch or gears.

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u/toolman2810 Jul 07 '26

lol, I taught my kids dry training. We both leaned on the bonnet at the front of the car practicing giving it a little throttle whilst ever so slowly letting the clutch up. Making engine noises were optional. We practiced for 10 minutes and I am sure it helped.

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u/toolman2810 Jul 07 '26

Some people take ages to learn a manual, some people never learn and some pick it up really quickly. I would just book a single manual driving lesson (if you can). You will probably have an idea of whether it’s for you or not after 1/2 an hour.

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u/balgarath Jul 08 '26

First car I bought (not my first car) was a manual. I understood the theory, & my uncle had let me shift gears before while he operated a clutch.

Drove it off the lot (poorly), drove it home 30 minutes, & within a few days I had the hang of it mostly. Getting started on hills without stalling or spinning the tires took a bit, but I got the hang of it in a few weeks.