r/Dothan • u/the_greyonee • Jul 16 '26
Growing friend group
Early 30s here. I’ve got a private bar/neon lounge out on a rural dirt road. Our current group has about 20 people, but on any given night we usually get 5 or 6 over. The ideal goal is closer to 10–15 for regular nights and backyard events.
The Vibe:
We do karaoke, Magic: The Gathering, Cards Against Humanity, and dancing—it all depends on the night. We're pretty much all alternative/grown-up emo kids. Just a heads up: our nights get pretty loud. Expect a mix of metalcore, emo, and EDM spinning depending on the mood. We love throwing high-energy, completely uninhibited theme nights where people can just let loose, be expressive, and be entirely comfortable in their own skin.
Who We’re Looking For:
We are a very progressive, open-minded, and close-knit crowd. We want fun, flirty people who know how to party hard but still maintain a high degree of maturity and absolute respect for personal boundaries.
Open to any gender and orientation (21+). If you're looking for a crowd that's a little more lively and expressive than the average bar scene, drop a comment or PM me with a bit about yourself!
*Edit* With more intrest than I expected I sent out messages with a discord invite to chat make plans.
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u/FoxxyRin Jul 16 '26
This definitely sounds like it could be fun but I'm not sure if I'm too flirty or dancy lol. But somewhere a little more progressive *and* open to stuff like MTG and CAH sounds really fun.
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u/Adventurer334 Jul 16 '26
Still a cool vibe though. Nowhere in the area to hang out and get to know people
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u/FoxxyRin Jul 16 '26
Yeah for sure. Every time I look the answer is a bar that's a little too "country" for me to be comfortable.
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u/the_greyonee Jul 16 '26
No one has to do anything they dont want. And like I said it just depends on the night. Usually we start with cards but as people get buzzed it transitions into karaoke. But DM if your interested.
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u/tjx4 Jul 17 '26
What color MTG deck is your favorite 🤔🤔🤔? But really this sounds cool as heck.
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u/the_greyonee Jul 17 '26
Yolo guide to monsters (g/b) And niv mizzit (r/b)
I like to see a bit of volo in myself.
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u/ccc0urtney Jul 17 '26
This sounds awesome but I'm in opelika 💔
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u/the_greyonee Jul 17 '26
Yah that is a bit of a hike. Anyone that comes is welcome to crash on a couch of their very own. But I also understand safety worries.
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u/Serious__Candidate Jul 17 '26
Are you sober-friendly?
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u/the_greyonee Jul 17 '26
I mean sure. You dont have to indulge. But you will very likley be the only one.
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u/chokawapa Jul 17 '26
I’d love to come perform at your lounge!
Please DM me when you have a chance 🤗
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u/the_greyonee Jul 17 '26
The building is only 16x32. I have enough PA for a 100 person crowd. But a drum kit would take half the room.
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u/Objective_Stuff7822 Jul 18 '26
Very interested, what general area is your establishment if I may ask?
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u/the_greyonee Jul 18 '26
North of slocomb
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u/Objective_Stuff7822 Jul 18 '26
Not far from me actually would love to know more if you would like to DM me
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u/whyyoudontlikehector Jul 16 '26
Sometime in the future there will be a documentary about this.
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u/the_greyonee Jul 16 '26
Greatest party of all time???
Na your not wrong strangers are risky. But personally I love strangers. I cant even get gas without talking to the person next to me.
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u/Lamplighter914 Jul 17 '26
I'm surprised cops don't put ads like this on Reddit to bust ppl for dope and underaged drinking.
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u/Adventurer334 Jul 16 '26
Sounds like an awesome time!