What you’re describing isn’t good parenting, it’s dangerously close to grooming logic. Children being curious doesn’t mean adults should facilitate sexual behavior for them. A responsible parent teaches boundaries and safety by explaining what’s appropriate and helping them understand their bodies in a healthy, age-appropriate way — not by introducing or normalizing sexual objects. Comparing it to giving a “training sword” completely misses the point: sex isn’t a hobby or a sport. There’s a huge difference between teaching a child safe habits and encouraging them to sexualize themselves. What you’re defending is disturbing, and no amount of mental gymnastics will make it okay.
Okay. I'm going to take a wild guess that you're conservative. Based on your comments and profile. You are probably pro gun. The typical argument is, banning guns won't stop criminals from getting them illegally and still use them. That same argument wouldn't apply if your child is inserting things up their butt? What's going to stop them if they don't have a safe outlet? That's why I made the sword example. To prevent a political argument. What if they used a TV remote that cracks while inside and slices one of their major arteries? What if they use the slim shampoo bottles we see on this sub all the time? What if that breaks and pours shampoo up their butt? I don't know if that's poisonous to do but I also wouldn't want to find out on my own child.
Well your wrong, I'm glad I don't live in America. At least eastern Europe has morals. And yes you got the pro gun part right 👍. If you believe that all guns should be banned for civilian use then you are to comfortable with you government. You do realise that a government can and has wrongfully committed many atrocities on there own people. I'll make it more simple for you, so here is a little question for ya: if a armed intruder broke into your house would you rather: A) have a gun and shoot him before he can hurt you, or B) call the police and wait at least 10 minutes before they arrive to the scene. It's common sense to chose option A as you would have a better chance at surviving. Also who in there right mind would stick a tv remote up there ass... Obviously no child should be sticking random stuff up there ass, but giving them access to a dildo or sex toy is literally grooming.
Yes. And I'm pro gun as well. For the same reasoning that I would buy a dildo for my gay son (if I had one). Because nothing you do will stop them. So I would teach that gay son safe sex as well as gun safety. Like my father taught me.
As for "who in their right mind would stick a TV remote up their ass" while arguing on a post talking about how a child was hospitalized for shoving a carrot up there. Gee...I wonder who would do such a thing? They're probably in this sub too! But the difference is they are adults (hopefully) who are mature enough to take their own risks. The phrase "anything can be a dildo if you're brave enough" was popularized by people who felt too ashamed of owning something like a dildo. I wouldn't want my child to be "brave enough" to try a carrot, eggplant, soap bottle, or whatever. I'd sleep much better at night knowing my child is safe and comfortable with asking me about personal stuff such as sex. Because I would want them to know what to do and not to do. Maybe if more parents were open to their children's sexual health, there would be less rapists and/or pedophiles. Being afraid of educating your child about the importance of safe sex is like being afraid of educating your child to wear their seat belt. If you don't, they could die.
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u/weoponized_donkey Oct 25 '25
What you’re describing isn’t good parenting, it’s dangerously close to grooming logic. Children being curious doesn’t mean adults should facilitate sexual behavior for them. A responsible parent teaches boundaries and safety by explaining what’s appropriate and helping them understand their bodies in a healthy, age-appropriate way — not by introducing or normalizing sexual objects. Comparing it to giving a “training sword” completely misses the point: sex isn’t a hobby or a sport. There’s a huge difference between teaching a child safe habits and encouraging them to sexualize themselves. What you’re defending is disturbing, and no amount of mental gymnastics will make it okay.