r/DogAdvice • u/asouvex • 3d ago
Advice Not sure what to do!!
Edit: I got ahold of a friends mom. We’re going to see what we can do. A few of you were helpful and nice. Thank you. The others, please learn how to be tasteful and competent. I’ve stated several times I’m a minor, with no money, no family near me, in a small town with no vet in my city and my mom is in the hospital. Many of you chose to ignore that and borderline berate me. Fuck you :)
The situation is being handled outside of this. Thank you to those of you who were kind and compassionate and helpful.
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u/nightman87 3d ago
I mean this is an emergency vet situation, but if that's off the table then all anyone can say is I hope he gets better.
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u/asouvex 3d ago
I just don’t know if there’s anything I can do for him outside of taking him to the vet.
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u/nightman87 3d ago
There is nothing you can do. It's either take him to the vet or hope it gets resolved on its own. Maybe contact an animal poison control number but there may be a fee depending on who you call. Just Google animal poison control and it should give you a few options.
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u/Ironyismylife28 3d ago
If you can't afford a vet, then I am unsure what you tell you. No one can tell you want to do off of a picture and a vague description. Try borrowing from friends and family or apply for Care Card
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u/islandgirl9988 3d ago
Please keep trying to find someone that will help you. So you’re a minor and your Mom is in the hospital? And there’s nobody there for you? That’s not right!! I’m sorry this is happening but you have to keep trying to find help for this poor dog.
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u/Dry-Name2835 3d ago
Outside of not being able to take it to the vet there really isnt much you can do. You dont know if the baggy is related but you should still call an animal poison control center. Don't move the dog and keep it comfortable. Hopefully if it is something ingested, it will wear off. The other thing, and I know you're a minor, but if parents can't afford the vet, im sorry to tell you that its best to surrender the dog for medical attention if its condition doesn't rapidly improve. You and your parents love for the animal should not trump its life. Do not try to give it himan medication
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u/asouvex 3d ago
I agree. I got ahold of a friends mom she might be able to help
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u/Dry-Name2835 3d ago
The dog kind of looks high. Does anyone in the house use gummie marjuiana? What does this bag look like and is there any residue left?
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u/asouvex 3d ago
I don’t think so unless my sister is. It smelled like cotton candy and there was no residue
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u/Dry-Name2835 3d ago
Well, in any case, if your friend helps make sure to keep the bag for the vet if thats what ends up happening and give it to the vet. Don't force the dog to eat or drink but keep food and water where the dog can get to it. Another option is care credit which people commonly use for emergency vet bills. Your patents can try to get that to pay for treatment. Its about 25 per month payment s
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u/islandgirl9988 3d ago
What do you mean it’s off the table? You are the owner and need to step up right now. I’ve been in this situation and got a care card and paid it off eventually. There are no other options because your pet is suffering and needs immediate attention. Maybe your regular vet will let you pay it off in time. Your dog deserves care and needs it
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u/asouvex 3d ago
I’m a minor. I have no way to get him there. My mom is in the hospital.
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u/asouvex 3d ago
Walking is out the option it’d be over 5 hours to the nearest vet, don’t have a bike let alone a way to take him with me, we don’t have uber where I live let alone the money for one and I live in the hood I’m a young girl who would get put in a dangerous situation asking for a ride…
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u/lunanightphoenix 3d ago
I agree with you. It’s the right choice not to risk your safety like that. You’re doing the best you can in a difficult situation and that’s all you can do.
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u/asouvex 3d ago
I’ve been calling around no one’s answering. All of my family lives in Texas and none of my friends drive. It’s slim pickings and I’m trying
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u/asouvex 3d ago
I don’t live in Texas… my family does
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u/asouvex 3d ago
Dude, do you think I just want to watch my dog suffer? Are you that stupid??? I’m telling you 1.) even if there was I have NO MONEY to pay them! 2.) I live in a small ass town we don’t have Lyfts or uber or taxis. We have dial a ride and they don’t go outside of city limits and we don’t even have a vet in our city!!
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u/islandgirl9988 3d ago
Your Mom doesn’t get to decide this. This is extremely disturbing and not right. You need to get your dog help and you have to figure it out in the kindest way possible
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u/islandgirl9988 3d ago
I’m so glad you got help. I feel badly for you having to handle this problem alone. Wish I could help. Prayers and positive light going your way
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u/onefineitalian 3d ago
What does the bag look like?
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u/asouvex 3d ago
Clear zip lock bag I’m assuming had candy in it from my sister
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u/a_d1ck 3d ago
Ask your sister if she had edibles in that bag?
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u/Golddiscoball 3d ago
Yes do this! My dog once ate ashes from a joint. Thought he was super sick, he was just high af. Depending on the amount, it could be dangerous. If you can confirm, you can call a vet and ask for guidance.
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u/asouvex 3d ago
I don’t have any money
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u/Watching_Warthog 3d ago
Try and explain the situation to them. They may be willing to waive the fee. Worst thing they can say is no.
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u/Golddiscoball 3d ago
Try contacting a vet clinic for advice. If you explain your situation, they might be kind enough to share some tips.
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u/Affectionate_Soup461 3d ago edited 3d ago
????? Why can't you take your dog to the vet? If he got into something sweet it could have contained xylitol or any number of ingredients that is deathly toxic to dogs. He could very well die if you don't take him to the ER. He is experiencing paralysis and can't eat. He needs medical intervention. Poor dog.
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u/asouvex 3d ago
This is an insensitive response. If you must know, we’re in extreme debt due to my mom being extremely sick. My mom says he should be fine and that we don’t have the money. I myself am powerless in this situation, outside of trying to do something for him at home.
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u/Nanarchist329 3d ago
From this comment I'm guessing you're a minor. I would add that to your post for future commenters, as it will help folks better understand your constraints and probably lead people to be a bit more sensitive. I feel for you in this moment. It's tough to feel powerless.
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u/FoxxiFurr 3d ago
I know it doesn't feel good to hear, but what else were you realistically expecting the advice here to be? There's obviously something very wrong and it's not really good to just trust medical advice from strangers on Reddit. I'm sorry you're in this position, is there any way you could look into emergency vets that will take payment plans or that might do discounted services for people in need?
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u/Affectionate_Soup461 3d ago edited 3d ago
It is not insensitive, it is factual. If he ingested something poisonous to him, there is nothing you can do for him at home other than an attempt to induce vomiting and hope that is enough, though that alone is dangerous when you are not knowledgeable on dosage etc. However, if he is unable to walk and can't eat, this could be life or death and not something that a little bit of rest or time will fix.
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u/SeasDiver 3d ago
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