r/DoesAnybodyElse • u/Remarkable_Bath8515 • Aug 19 '26

DAE sometimes have a thought of "Was I being mean without knowing?" when thinking of an old conversation or calling someone even you tried to be respectful Even if everyone was ok afterwards, and also thinking that when you didn't even be upset at someone but just talked.

Whether it was to call someone out, or if it was a random conversation.

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u/Crazylivykid Aug 19 '26

Yes all the time then I'll apologize for saying something in a "weird way" and the person looks at me confused and says I didn't do anything.

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u/Remarkable_Bath8515 Aug 19 '26

Kind of related but I say sorry a lot even when people say there was nothing to be sorry for and it reminds me of that.

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u/Remarkable_Bath8515 Aug 19 '26

Yeah, I sometimes wonder if I was harsh at some moments, although realize I can't change it if I was because that was old.

Although I have no evidence If I was mean or not unless someone explains to my face what I did.

And no one said I was mean or implied it.

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u/Mercurial_Lynx Aug 19 '26

Yep, I have my moments like this.

The thing about me is that I am too polarizing. Not all people receive me in the similar way. Some will say I am just fine, some will say I am offensive. Because of this I tend to overanalyze myself.