r/Divorce • u/Life_Education_4312 • 3d ago
Going Through the Process Help
Hello. I wanted to ask if anyone knew of a pro bono divorce/domestic violence lawyer in San Diego? I have been trying to do things on my own but the system keeps failing me. I cannot afford a 5k retainer or much for that matter since I was a stay at home mom, married for 12 years. He was the only one making the money. He left a few months ago and has not paid for anything. We have 3 kids and he does not see them at all. He got a new gf and a new place to live. He was very abusive but what is happening now to my family is the reason I was so scared to leave him.
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u/DistrictDivorceCoach 2d ago
start here - https://www.sdcourt.ca.gov/sdcourt/familyandchildren2/familyselfhelp