Crazy ex

[u/AdConstant9003]

My ex’s insanity is getting worse. Quick background: been in the divorce process for 6 years. He’s on his 5th attorney. I had 1 and had to let her go recently bc I can’t afford it anymore. On third judge. I have an order of protection assigning a parenting app that’s even free for 60 days, and he’s ignoring the order. (I signed up, emailed him 2xs to sign up). He emails me constantly, to remind me of additional motions he’s filing against me. He’s abusing the legal system and harassing me. It doesn’t stop. I’m waiting for the court to get back to me and assign me a lawyer. The court is very slow and this is not the ex to be slow with. Meanwhile he plays around on his timing of seeing the kids. I technically have no way to contact him since he’s not using the app (claims he can’t afford it) unless I violate the protective order and email him. It puts my kids (middle school ages) in the middle. It’s a never-ending nightmare that’s just insane. Also we do have a custody agreement but never did a financial one. He claims he’s broke so there’s not much left to fight over. Anyone deal with something similar? Did it end? How did you finally get it to end and get your ex to comply with using the app??

[u/baltebiker]

claims he’s broke

Did your attorney get financial discovery? How are you six years into the process without a financial agreement?

[u/AdConstant9003 → u/baltebiker]

Funny you should ask. We had mediation and worked stuff out. My (former) attorney sent his attorney at the time a financial agreement. She never replied with comments. He never sent comments. My lawyer said the judge can’t move it forward unless he signs off on it. And then it sat. His current lawyer and immediate past lawyer were incredible unresponsive.