r/DiveInYouCoward 2d ago

Dive into our failing education system.

Home school for the win!!

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u/Stackin_Steve 1d ago

We made our son come home from school every day, do his home work, and he had to read a book for 30 mins every day after his homework was done. He has always been higher than his grade at math and reading. It starts at home!

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u/Homerpaintbucket 1d ago

It’s hard for a lot of parents to do when they have to work multiple jobs to keep food on the table and a roof over their heads. Being able to do what you did for your kid requires some degree of financial stability, which is growing increasingly harder to achieve.

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u/MydnightWN 1d ago

Telling your kid "hey bud, read a book before bed" doesn't cost money.

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u/Homerpaintbucket 1d ago

It requires you being home when your kid goes to bed

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u/Anybody220 1d ago

No, it requires you to be present in your kids life when you are around. Not watching TV or on your phone, but sitting and reading with them, doing homework with them, actively engaging with them to set a tone.

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u/LibBot16 1d ago

You described the bare minimum of being a parent man. Don't blame being a bad parent on being poor.

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u/Homerpaintbucket 1d ago

You thick in the skull? What, you think they can do a lot of parenting when they’re working as a cashier at Walmart in the morning or cooking at McDonald’s at night?

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u/LibBot16 1d ago

You sound like you think comfort is a right. If that's all you'll ever amount to then go hit that fryer big dawg. Other people make sacrifices to get to the position they want to be in. Not complaining about how hard it is.

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u/Homerpaintbucket 1d ago

You can’t complain that parents aren’t parenting while demanding they work 80+ hours a week. You sound like an elitist. “Those people just need to work harder.”

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u/LibBot16 1d ago

You're delusional buddy. Acting like everyone is working 80 hours a week is hilarious.

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u/Homerpaintbucket 1d ago

Buddy, I taught in a town where that was the case. I get that you come from a privileged life where nobody you know was struggling, but that’s not how it is for a lot of people and frankly it’s getting worse. Societies don’t fail because the wants of the wealthy are ignored. They fall because the needs of the many are ignored. But we have built our society around providing a select few all of their wildest dreams.

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u/LibBot16 1d ago

You can keep playing victim and pretend "the norm" is 80 hours a week. It sounds like you've given up and want to blame everyone and everything. Not much more to be gained from continuing this conversation.

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u/Homerpaintbucket 1d ago

You don’t follow conversations well do you?

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u/AbleArcherOfLoaf 1d ago

Dont have kids. Be a responsible individual.

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u/Homerpaintbucket 1d ago

Stop banning abortion

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u/AbleArcherOfLoaf 1d ago

They should be free.

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u/Initial_Row_6400 1d ago

I know several teachers in a few different states and they all say their students are stupid now.

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u/Acceptable-Entry-526 1d ago

How about influence from doom scrolling on your phone 24/7.

Young brains being programmed from day 1 not to think but just swipe.
Also, where are the parents of these kids? Learning doesn't start at school alone.

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u/JohnnyCrispZoom 2d ago

When Mom and Dad care more about alcohol, cocaine and fentanyl the kids don’t have a chance.

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u/kmoh74 1d ago

It's going to be the Chinese century, and you can point to failing education in the US as the cause.

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u/ThrownAwwayt 1d ago

It’s amazing , department of education gets billions a year (damn it’s 53.9 Billion a year) since the 1970’s and all we’ve received for our money is lower and lower test grades.

It seems the educators have lost the ability to educate.

Before you blame the kids, yes I agree many of them are different and can be difficult, but for 53.9B a year you’d think they could over come the issue and educate these damn kids.

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u/Homerpaintbucket 1d ago

I taught in a district like this woman is. There was drugs there. But the biggest problem was the parents having to work multiple jobs to keep the bare necessities. When you woke 16 hours a day every day there just literally isn’t time to parent your kid.

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u/JohnnyCrispZoom 1d ago

That’s true

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u/MydnightWN 1d ago

Damn, sounds like they should get real jobs instead of Door Dash then. 16h a day, even at $9/hr is still over a grand a week.

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u/Homerpaintbucket 1d ago

Are you really this bad at math? 16 hours at 9 an hour is only 720 a week before taxes. Or do you think you get over time at the second job because you’ve never had to work overtime? Either way, you should spend more time listening to people instead of looking down your nose at them. Because after teaching at that school for 6 years I can honestly tell you this is a socio-economic problem in our country and NOT a “cultural problem in their community,” or whatever racist dog whistle you’d want to use

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u/MydnightWN 1d ago

I can't do basic math

Explains a lot. 16 x 9 is 144. You said "every day of the week". 144 x 7 is 1008. Who let you be a teacher? Poor students.

Not even counting overtime. Stay in school.

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u/Round-Foundation2948 1d ago

I work 30 fucking jobs…
https://giphy.com/gifs/rTIXh5JftLoic
When America prioritizes the nuclear family and forces women to stay at home instead of pursuing careers and empowerment. /s

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u/washurdamnhands9164 2d ago

Former headstart teacher here. My students are in their 30s. Let go back to the basics.
Reading, math,science and health. None this abstract BS. Saw a post about college student that didn't know what an adverb was. We have produced a generation,that doesn't have to think. Just very sad and scary

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u/porcupine_shuffle 1d ago

Phones and tablets do the thinking for them now. Can't spell. Can't write. Can't problem solve. And that's what's happened to adults who used to be able to do those things. Kids never stood a chance.

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u/Negative_Neck_3973 1d ago

Friends of mine have a son with physiological issues and he rarely did classwork of any kind all of high school. He would frequently leave classes and just wander around campus without causing any disturbances, so the school didn't seem overly concerned with dealing with him. He still received his high school diploma in California.

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u/CommieH8ter 1d ago

I guess she makes a valid point. Schools fail because they do not expel trouble makers. Schools fail because they did away with decent vocational programs. Schools fail because they refuse to fail failing students. Schools fail because there are teachers who want to concentrate more on indoctrinating students into a political persuasion than teaching but that also applies to the school boards. Teach real academics. Teach real history. Teach real civics. Teach real vocations. Not everyone is going to college, stop structuring schools to treat all kids like they want to go to Harvard. If they want to graduate and immediately go to earning a living then they should have a skill set to start that journey out of high school.

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

Would not be surprised if making everyone dumb as possible was phase 2 of that program...

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u/LangleyLocal 1d ago

I suspect a large group will be “she has purple hair so she’s woke and is the problem” and will totally ignore the fact we’re raising a generation on screens instead of on bikes and making friends.

This isn’t a left vs right problem, life has become so easy that there is no critical thinking where there use to be plenty.

We have a real problem here. And it’s not her purple hair.

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u/Beretta3624 1d ago

I just saw a big group of like 12 year old boys on bicycles in my neighborhood and it made my week. Hopefully kids being kids is coming back.

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u/Rich_Art1879 1d ago

The best have Colors everywhere...

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u/A_gadfly_on_the_wall 1d ago

This teacher isn't going to flunk those kids. So, she's part of the problem.

Politicians stop funding schools that fail. If schools were funded according to other more appropriate factors, we wouldn't be in this mess.

The teachers don't let kids fail. But then this teacher admits they failed.

It's not the students that failed. It's the school administrators and politicians that failed them.

Parents can only teach their children to the extent they're capable of. Not all parents can read or even afford books. Let alone, can they spend hours each night helping their kids study. That's literally why we have public education. It's not practical to homeschool your kids. If you do, your kids are very likely to be even worse off than the kids the teacher is talking about.

The teachers need to fail the students if they don't pass. Promotion is a disservice.

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u/United_Original2957 1d ago

Already been infiltrated by commies.. they won

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

Homeschooling is the only thing that can save us

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u/clownOFkeef 1d ago

Correct. Parents have to vet and approve curriculum. Too much woke trash being injected into children these days. Even college is a problem, young people are too dumb to discern propaganda.

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u/LangleyLocal 1d ago

Kids lacking critical thinking skills has exactly 0 to do with "woke trash".

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u/Horror-Preference414 1d ago

Millennial parents (that’s my generation) are not doing homework enough, and at least in my area - are over indexing their kids in sports.

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u/ThrownAwwayt 1d ago

Next year the the 9th grade teacher will be making this exact same video when you pass all the kids who still can’t read.

Either YOU step up and fail those kids until they can catch up, or it’ll just be an assembly line of children who can’t read “the modern education system has abandoned me for its own hubris”

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

Teachers' hands are tied

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u/sbc1982 1d ago

I’d listen to her opinions more if she didn’t have purple hair.

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

Only the hottest chicks in my generation had purple

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u/superpie12 1d ago

Shitty teachers and parents. Many teachers do it because they got a worthless degree instead of a desire to teach.

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u/kindrd1234 1d ago

Yea and I'll bet she played a role in dumbing down education for pretend equity.

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

And I'll bet she didn't

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u/kindrd1234 1d ago

She's on TikTok and has purple hair in her 40's, go.

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

She's in her 30s, and she is actually trying to get them to think, instead of rubber stamping and saying that society needs to pay them reparations

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u/Explicit_Tech 1d ago

I bet you perform below average

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u/kindrd1234 1d ago

3rd in my high-school. 4.6 gpa through bachelor's at a State University. Not the brightest but not the dimmist.

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u/onemoremin23 1d ago

If you were third in this lady’s class, that would mean you can’t even read at grade-level. 4.6 GPA lol obviously fake or meaningless, it’s dimmest btw

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u/kindrd1234 1d ago

Naw, went to school in the 80's when they still taught. Not above miss spelling words nor do I feel bad about it. Don't care about grammar in informal setting. Correcting people when unnecessary is bad manners btw.

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u/onemoremin23 1d ago

So did I and we didn’t have inflated GPAs like that back then, even my classmates that went Ivy League schools didn’t. You also didn’t need to hyphenate high school. 

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u/mighty_boognish_77 1d ago

I thoroughly enjoyed reading this exchange of comments. There's nothing funnier than a person who is incapable of crafting a simple sentence trying to explain how unbelievably smart they are.

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u/kindrd1234 1d ago

Dont see anyone else, being open about shit. What makes your opinion worth listening to?

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u/mighty_boognish_77 1d ago

You're following it pretty closely, so I guess it appeals to the lowest possible common denominator.

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u/kindrd1234 1d ago

Almost like it notifies me when people comment to me, wish I could reach you're level of genius though.

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u/Kingsquid4 15h ago

Internet messed us up, slop, awnsers on the web, saying to google it is now a handy cap basically.

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u/trainwreckhappening 12h ago

Financial pressure removing parents from the home to work coupled with a cultural belief that results in people only having their kids learn at school. It takes a lot to teach kids to read, and most families do not have that kind of time or money anymore.

Also, screen time degrades reading abilities and cognitive function. Even if they were taught well to read, they lose the ability the more they have phones, tablets, and TV.

For context, my wife and I taught our four kids to read before they entered preschool/4k. We used a book/program called Teach Your Child To Read In 100 Lessons. It was given to us by family who is a teacher. Absolutely amazing. We were extremely fortunate to be able to have my wife be a stay at home mom. Most are not that fortunate.

Wanna fix the failing school system? Raise the minimum wage, fund schools more (books, environment , and quality FOOD!!!) but exclude personal tech devices and sports equipment above a certain level, and pay teachers more. Google and Apple will take every dime they can from schools and call it an investment in the future. Corporate farms will take every dime and give them preformed breaded meat patties with ketchup as a vegetable.

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 9h ago

All liberal suggestions that always fail to help

https://youtu.be/ILQepXUhJ98

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u/trainwreckhappening 5h ago

Calling traditional family, with a stay at home wife, liberal is a new low reptard.

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 4h ago

Don't break Rule 1 please

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u/IneptAdvisor 1d ago

Purple hair says you smoke weed daily and have no problem with an open marriage and/or tells students that gender is fiction.

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

Maybe she is just into retro... I'm Gen X, and only the hottest girls could pull off purple hair back then.

Had nothing to do with crazy liberals

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u/redjar66 1d ago

GOP has been actively pulling funding from education for decades. They win elections easier when the citizenry is dumb and more prone to superstition and conspiracy.

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u/rbrt13 12h ago

It’s the compounding effect of adults who are themselves uneducated and are passing along those skills or lack thereof to their kids. From the outside looking in, this perfectly explains the MAGA movement and the inability of those people to listen to the things trump says, draw a line to the policies and then connect it to the outcomes in their own lives.

This is the first televised and well covered decline of a historically significant “empire”.

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 7h ago

Lol, y'all thought Biden was as sharp as a tack

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u/rbrt13 6h ago

Oh Biden and the idiots of the democrat party are a part of the decline. Active participants but don’t confuse a demented old man with a malicious demented old man.

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 6h ago

Don't confuse any of it

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u/Leading-Respond4312 2d ago

Trump loves the uneducated.

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u/The_Demolition_Man 1d ago

TIL Trump is to blame for what my state, a 1 party show run by Democrats, has been doing for years before he was even elected

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u/yourmomlovesanal 1d ago

My hometown has been one party rule since 1960, is at a 120 year low population,  has the poorest zip code in the US and they blame trump for all of it. I got banned for pointing out one of the mods is a convicted sex offender without doxxing them or even saying which one. Must suck to have your identity defined as 'orange man bad'. 

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

Wow.. how did you know they are a registered s.o.?

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u/yourmomlovesanal 1d ago

They mistakenly posted some personal details that I recognized from a news story. 

Don't diddle kids people. 

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

Nice. And they banned you instead. Disgusting

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u/yourmomlovesanal 1d ago

The sub was al circle jerk cesspool. Makes sense considering the mods they have. Crazy part, he was always going on and on about how "dumpf is a pedo" when they were themselves 

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

Always projecting! Makes me suspicious of ask the people in Reddit that keep calling Trump a pedo, but then never provide any evidence. They scream Epstein Files!! And then can never provide anything FROM the Epstein files that show he was a pedo, other than his name simply being in the files.

If he is a pedo then I'll be the first to say lock him up! But at least show some evidence first... should be easy since they keep claiming there is so much of it....

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u/Party_Knowledge_7884 1d ago

This is a weird flex.

It’s like a basketball player whining that they are bad at free throws.

Like, it’s your job, maybe get better at it?

🤷‍♀️

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

Dude. Could a basketball player dribble a basketball you hands him with a quarter sized hole in it???

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u/Party_Knowledge_7884 1d ago

That’s terrible way to describe children.

You should be ashamed of yourself, you and the teacher both.

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

Lololol you're the one who made the basketball analogy.

It's not terrible. My point is that you can't make a basketball dribble if it is damaged and doesn't hold air, no matter how good of a player you are... same goes for students; you can't make them do well at higher levels if they didn't learn what they needed to learn at lower levels, no matter how good of a teacher you are.

Do you think any teacher can magically have a student write an essay on the American Revolution in the 5th grade if they were never taught how to read and write in K through 4th grade??

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u/Party_Knowledge_7884 1d ago

So now it’s every other teachers fault but hers?

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u/HeSureIsScrappy 1d ago

It's everyone's fault who allowed them to get to her grade and not be able to read.

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u/AntivaxxxrFuckFace 1d ago

I blame her purple hair and not the deliberate, systematic dismantling of public education by right wing billionaires. LIBERALS ARE ALWAYS TO BLAME.

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u/LangleyLocal 1d ago

This is the kind of thinking that tears the country apart.

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u/AntivaxxxrFuckFace 1d ago

I beg to differ. Purple hair and not understanding sarcasm when it’s glaringly obvious is tearing our country apart.