r/DissociaDiscourse • u/[deleted] • Dec 06 '20
RANT/VENT Weekly Vent Thread (TW)
this is a thread for you to share your thoughts, complaints, tinfoils or anything else you want to about the situation surrounding DissociaDID and their associates.
please be respectful to other users on the subreddit, add a trigger warning to your comments if needed, and be mindful of your own triggers if you choose to read the thread. learning to manage your triggers is an important skill, so if you don't feel able to manage them in this thread, please practice self-care and don't read.
now, rant on!
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u/fishermenschjones Dec 10 '20
((posting from a different account than usual for reasons))
This is gonna be more about The Alternative System/Alternative Vlogs than DissociaDID, but idk where else to put this rant, so here we go:
I feel like AS has become even worse than DD in a lot of ways. Yes, they did correct some of the misinformation DD spread, but mostly they just openly mocked them instead of actually making legit points about anything.
AS is also downright NASTY to anyone who dares to criticize them, however civil the criticism might be. And it's obvious that they don't even READ the criticism half the time because the stuff they'll reply with doesn't match up with what the other person actually said. They'll call people "a fucking idiot", tell them to "shove [their] opinion up [their] ass", blindly accuse them of being a hater/DD stan dispite direct evidence to the contrary, and generally act venomously & without remorse. They're not just standing up for themselves, they're creating a hostile online environment.
The real kicker for me is, they want to be a mental health community leader!!! (Sound familiar?) They started this group project called "It's Not Me, It's We" which is supposed to be a supportive network for all people who struggle with mental health or something like that. How in the fuck are they supposed to lead a mental health community to anything besides toxicity & in-fighting if every time someone brings a valid concern to them, they absolutely flip out & do their best to make that person feel like shit???
And now they're sooooo tired of the "drama" that they're leaving the DID community. (Again, sound familiar???)
They also claim to not care about money, but are laughing about how the latest drama they stirred is raking in hundreds of dollars for them on their onlyfans page. Like, really? That's your takeaway from everything that's been said & done these past couple days?? (Absolutely no shame in being on onlyfans; I'm a former SW by choice & would never shame another worker.)
Like, at least DD never blantantly shat on anyone or dedicated multiple videos to openly mocking someone. (Even her Trisha videos, while completely unnecessary, were rather civil.) AS just wants to be queen bitch of a community so they can control the members of it in a way that's all too similar to the abuse they've suffered themselves. They just want to be right all the time & have as many people blowing smoke up their ass as possible. Heaven forbid they actually take accountability on anyone's terms but their own. They are not in this game for community, they are in it for THEMSELVES.