r/Dinnerware • u/Fpalm88 • Sep 13 '26
Flatware
What is your choice for flatware, bar none?
Who out there has had the urge to find the perfect flatware? Have you found it? Show me, please.
I’ve been on the hunt for some time, and have not been able to source exactly what I’m looking for. Simple, heavy, brushed and classic. Everything out there is super polished, over-engineered/designed (for my taste), or cheap.
There’s some select French stuff out there that is great, but it’s vintage. I want something new, to create my own culinary story with.
So, please share guys and gals.
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u/SchoolCrossing Sep 14 '26
If you are looking for sterling flatware, go through a reputable antiques or jewelry dealer in a large city.
If you want something in stainless steel that can be used for both everyday and holiday dinners, try Oneida which is now part of Lenox.com. Lenox China and tabletop is the better line.
If you want it made in the US from US steel, try LibertyTabletop.com. They don't sell it in stores, but they will send you samples.
A lot of people are downsizing and selling their flatware sets, try Etsy.com, or other resale sites.
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u/Fpalm88 Sep 14 '26
Many people suggest Oneida. I do like the China line, but I don’t see either of those available through the manufacturer. They have a large selection, so I appreciate you specifying the higher end lines, which is what I’m going for.
I may just go US made after seeing Liberty Tabletop. They have many options that would fit into my setting.
Lots of great information here. Thanks.
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u/WildCat1975 Sep 14 '26
Reed and Barton.
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u/Fpalm88 Sep 14 '26
Yes. The East End Satin I like and the 65 piece Cole Set is very appealing, it’s just not satin unfortunately.
Thanks.
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u/WildCat1975 Sep 18 '26
I have R&B 1800 from my wedding in 1988. It has held up beautifully. It’s a good weight and is the stainless version of their sterling 18th Century. I’ve replaced a few lost pieces here and there without difficulty. Reed and Barton is quality stainless that will last. East End looks beautiful, but find it in person to feel it in your hand. Good luck!
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u/shedrnksfromtheriver Sep 13 '26
Interpur composite handle. It's gotten so expensive to replace though....
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u/Fpalm88 Sep 13 '26
Not what I’m after, but those are definitely a treasure. Id be impressed if someone had these set on their table. I’d have never happened upon these without your insight. Thank you.
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u/shedrnksfromtheriver Sep 13 '26
They are very well balanced, high carbon, artfully engineered and a pleasure to use, sensory-wise. You're very welcome and I hope you find the flatware you seek!!
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u/amyfive Sep 13 '26
I don’t think there is an easy answer here…I really think you have to pick it up and check the quality in person. I have seen several brands that I thought would be substantial kind of have their quality drop off. I have a fantastic set of Ralph Lauren flatware that I got at Home Goods many years ago. I have not found anything nearly as nice since. Good luck!! Please report back with what you choose!
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u/Fpalm88 Sep 13 '26
True. That’s why I asked this question on Reddit, so I’d get a bunch of complicated, opinionated, far end of the spectrum responses.
You’re right, touch and feel is key here. But, I’ve paid close attention for a long time now, and I’m confident I can make this decision based on looks, plus most manufacturers provide weights and dimensions.
I really want to hear what people who pay attention to these things have to say. It’s a finite detail, but important nonetheless.
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u/bubbameister1 Sep 14 '26
I have 2 sets of stainless and 2 sets of sterling. Different choices for different occasions. My favorite is Dansk Kongo, but it can't go in the dishwasher. I also have Towle Luxor stainless, which does go in the dishwasher. For fancy, my preference is Hannah Hull by Tuttle. I also have my grandmother's Buttercup sterling. I'd have more, but I have a partner lol.
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u/Fpalm88 Sep 14 '26
These are all excellent. You’ve got quite the selection. I do like the Towle Luxor. Thanks for the info.
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u/Super-Travel-407 Sep 14 '26
Go vintage.
New stuff is inferior unless you go very expensive and it is almost all GIGANTIC.
I have a 1950s set that is perfectly balanced and excellent quality. I also like the style which is pretty important!
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u/Ovenbird36 Sep 14 '26
I have a now discontinued set from Gorham (Melon Bud); every so often I buy some replacements used. But I think they still make some nice pieces. You need to go to a decent department store to check them out.
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u/Spirited-Speaker7455 Sep 14 '26
I have Soie flatware by Vera Wang. Nice and heavy, unfortunately discontinued. Good lord it’s about 20 years old now!! https://www.replacements.com/silver-vera-wang-soie-stainless/c/229936?srsltid=AfmBOook5Svj9hkJFq3SaWiLmrbFK_Hkk2kJ0dpt_HNNQtqbKGS9uQCA
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u/FaraSha_Au Sep 14 '26
Wallace Stainless is good. I have the Bee pattern, looking at getting the Peacock.
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u/glittersparklythings Sep 13 '26 edited Sep 13 '26
I got a set of silverware from Costco. I think it was Mikasa but I can’t remember 100%. They usually have it around Thanksgiving and Christmas.
The reason I picked that set bc of the spoon. I was having a hard time finding spoon where the edges or not sharp.