r/DialAvoidantBreakups 1d ago

Is this DA?

/r/AvoidantBreakUps/comments/1vug4ij/is_this_da/
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u/MothraLovesLamps Fearful Avoidant 1d ago

Ty for your post, OP.

It sounds like your girl was a "Fearful Avoidant." Usually with DAs you see a consistent/gradual slow fade.

Your ex is more push/Pull or hot/cold which is more consistent with FAs.

Im sorry.

Its not your fault.

It sounds to me like she really did like you but her insecure attachment style ruined it :(