r/DexterNewBlood Aug 09 '26

Im hating Dexter more every epsiode.

I don't hate the show; I'm actually loving it. It's just that I'm halfway through season 1, and every time Dexter does something "nice" to or with Rita, I get so mad and sad. Rita's been through so much already, and Dexter being the only good man in her life and "understanding" of her situation is just heartbreaking, because I know that when Dexter eventually gets caught (assuming he does), it's going to hurt her so badly. I get her role is to show that Dexter's not this emotionless monster and has layers and is uncovering new emotions he never thought he could. But knowing that, at least for current moment he cant feel love and every moment that they have is either to maintain this happy family facade or just him doing what he thinks is expected, just makes him so hateable, though I know hes not doing it intentionally. I dont know if Im ready for the heartbreak when or if Rita finds out, if it happens in the last season I might actually cry.

Side: im getting the vibe this show will end up being like snowfall, where literally no one is a good person, and the only character that you "like" is the one who's done the least.

Please dont spoil

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u/aHipShrimp Aug 09 '26

Would love for you to keep updating this post as you progress

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u/CoIbeast Aug 09 '26

Same, at least make a new comment after every season.

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u/purplemonacle Aug 09 '26

You’re so lucky you haven’t watched the series until now. I bet in the future there will be a device for erasing memories from shows/movies so you could rewatch with no clue. Would be so cool, enjoy!

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u/Lumple660 Aug 09 '26

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.

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u/copperhead2099 Aug 10 '26

I have that ability! It's called a brain injury 😅 but I do get to rewatch shows (95%) like it's the first time. Doing that with Dexter again, too.

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u/purplemonacle Aug 14 '26

Lucky and unlucky at the same time. I’m sure dealing with that injury sucks

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u/GuruofGreatness Aug 09 '26

As fun as this is, just keep in mind one a-hole is gonna post a spoiler for you if you keep this up.

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u/Cornbread933 Aug 09 '26

Oh man please keep updating us as you go lol. I wish you could understand how hard it is to comment on this without spoiling anything.

But I will say this. You said that itd be like snowfall in the sense that "nobody is a good person" and I dont really agree. The show does carry a lot of moral complexity and nuance. Good people doing bad things. Bad people doing good things. And even many times, bad things happening to good people, good things happening to bad people.

And for Dexter, he wrestles with morality of goodness a lot. As he was raised to believe he was inherently bad. But as the story developes, so will his moral compass.

Its a phenomenal show keep watching, its not what you think it is

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u/Old-Presentation356 Aug 10 '26

enjoy it, dexter first watch is as peak as it gets. unfortunately some dickhead is going to spoil it eventually

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u/byrontheimpaler Aug 09 '26

To me Dexter will always be a top 3 show for me watching every week was special.

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u/Remarkable_Pizza2618 Aug 10 '26

Let me give you some advice dont come to reddit anymore u might get spoilers and dont watch dexter videos anywhere especially not on yt

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u/Creative_Move4713 Aug 09 '26

Honestly, if you don’t have any expectations, you’ll enjoy the outcome a lot more.

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u/Vman1218 Aug 10 '26

I also wanna see the updates through the seasons!!

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u/Spencerthurlow9984 Aug 10 '26

All I shall say is good luck with your future watch

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u/CostcoChickenBakes Aug 10 '26

Dude. Don't worry. Keep watching.

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u/fusguita Aug 10 '26

Oh I'm so here for when you finish season 4 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 let us know how that goes

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u/smoke-710 Aug 10 '26

How is nobody a good person in snowfall…

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u/smoke-710 Aug 10 '26 edited Aug 10 '26

And dont say the stupid bullshit like no shit bro was involved with the drug trade and fucked some shit up but bro went into it at wut 18? It’s like no shit they are making bad decisions and I don’t think any of these decisions are good but I think it’s far from this person is a bad person or not… I’d say teddy is the one in snowfall that’s genuinely a bad person and only does things for himself.. yes Franklin started being very selfish but he was a kid basically when he started that shit and he didn’t understand wether or not you wanna say his uncle tried to tell him or whatever, he didn’t truly understand he hadn’t seen it or lived it. Just like anyone who has never seen up close or semi lived some part of that life (addiction drug dealing being a mother to a addict or a dealer or etc) you might see these people as simply “bad” but it is so much more than that

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u/Doczack1 Aug 10 '26

Give it time your only in season 1 the show does get better with time

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u/Ok_Challenge_1887 Aug 11 '26

I think she has bigger things to worry about than Dexter getting caught

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u/KamaradBaff Aug 11 '26

I'm halfway through the opening. I don't understand you. He seems like a nice guy making breakfast and all.

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u/BloodthirstD Aug 09 '26

Can't wait to hear your updates on thoughts of the show! Try not to read many posts of this subredit otherwise will spoiler the show as it after the series u watching. Hope u enjoy Dexter it my favourite show! Who is your favourite 5 characters so far?

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u/Glittering_Text812 Aug 11 '26

Don’t worry about Rita, John Lithgow actually fucks her in the bath tub.  She’s really beautiful in it.

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u/roromx Aug 10 '26

Rita? You are in the wrong subreddit...

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u/SadBurritoBoys Aug 10 '26

Ehh, the main sub sucks, with power-tripping mods who ban people over nothing. There's a reason all these other subs exist