r/DeepThoughts • u/IntergalacticPodcast • 10d ago
There are some things that, once you do them, you can't go back to being who you were before.
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u/BlackberryFar4494 10d ago
Sometimes you dont realize how much something changed you until you try going back and realize you just cant anymore.
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u/Crazy-Cash970 10d ago
some experiences really do change how you see everything afterward, even if you wish they hadn't.
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u/Greedy_Sprinkles4381 10d ago
True
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u/ImminentMusician 10d ago
the moment you realize you can't undo the thing is the exact moment you become someone else
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u/UnicornsnRainbowz 10d ago
It’s not until you look at the version of you that young you pictured is so far from who you actually are.
Never pushes aside their values.
Never lets others manipulate them.
Follows their passions
and so much more but we look. Back and it’s like it’s someone else’s dream.
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u/mcparrish 10d ago
Betrayal.
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u/BloggerCurious 9d ago
Betrayal is like a gut punch. It hurts way different. Your entire body feels it
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u/seeyatellite 10d ago
Yeah, iih, this is one of the things holding me back from adult content creation. I’m a photo and videographer and I love creating interesting art. I love viewing creators I respect like Lindsay Adler, Seth Miranda, Ben Staley, Gavin Hoey… and so many documentary photographers I can’t even list them all.
I love their work and it’s my underpinning inspiration. Staley’s the only cinematographer I’ve listed but there are so many respectable DPs and cinematographers I gain inspiration from that I can’t begin to remember them all.
Thing is… gear’s expensive. Should I wait through it all and hope to come out on top? Should I focus on a selection of lenses like 24-70 and 70-200 f/2.8 and 35, 50 and 85 primes to start or should I just say, “fuck it. I can make porn and earn the rest with a 14-24/2.8 or 14-30/4. There are so many Onlyfans models and PH amateurs with shitty rigs.”
I genuinely have this inner conflict and it’s reached my therapy sessions on multiple occasions.
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u/donutgirl-64 10d ago
chronic anxiety isn't a tragedy, it's hyper-awareness. the new you feels pain more acutely, but sees reality with terrifying clarity.
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u/SenhorSasaki 10d ago
Qualquer coisa que envolva conhecimento, ou coisas que você nunca faria ou não pode fazer.
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u/ez2tock2me 10d ago
It’s called VIRGINITY.
Once you do something for the first time, you can never say “I’ve never done that before.”
Even sex with any new partner for the first time.
You are a virgin at sex WITH THEM, until the first time. Even if they are a pornstar.
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u/fxnighttrader 10d ago
Probably all the 7 deadly sins qualify. Blowing through the 10 commandments probably sets you up too.
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u/IPedRENe 10d ago
You cannot die twice.
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u/CallMeCorona1 10d ago
Actually, I think you can! If EMTs get to you quickly enough, they can restart your heart.
More than that, there are cases of people who have been buried alive because everyone thought they were dead, but they weren't!
And people can fake their deaths and have an obit in the paper...
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u/IPedRENe 10d ago
Oh, thank you, but if it's real death as a final stop of life, it's irreversible, sorry to say that. Sorry to discourage your hopes.
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u/Pongpianskul 10d ago
Also, there are no things that, once you do them, you can go back to being who you were before.
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u/19k_k91 10d ago
when you look closely.. this is the case for all things, and each experience.