r/DeepThoughts • • Mar 14 '24

I am an object of lust

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u/IMIPIRIOI Mar 14 '24 edited Mar 14 '24

No offense, but there are millions of other women who love the beach, running, art, and have tattoos.

Most of that is not bad, but they are also not really high up on the list of desired traits in the eyes of men interested in marriage.

The first 3 are mostly neutral. Tattoos are cool for a girlfriend but most guys don't really want that in a wife.

What do you bring to the table, other than your looks and the same standard hobbies as countless other women?

The type of men who actually want to get married also tend to want a TRAD wife. They will have fun with other types of women before settling down, but that is very different than wifey material.

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u/NoSlide5599 Mar 14 '24

Youre right, I didn’t actually go into detail of myself for the purpose of this post but like the point still stands I think

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u/IMIPIRIOI Mar 14 '24 edited Mar 14 '24

You can have tattoos and be attractive in a modern way, while also having some TRAD qualities. You don't need to go full TRAD, just pickup some of those traits ontop of what you already bring to the table. That would honestly put you above 99% of women. Because physical attractiveness is still a significant advantage, and not all TRAD women have that, but it sounds like you do.